After 16 years as a writer and editor, which includes four years of blogging, I still don’t want to run more than one blog. I don’t mind contributing to other blogs or having other editing and writing projects, but having a successful blog takes a lot of work. Although I don’t think I’m a “top mom blogger,” I am happy with my measure of success and love those who read on a regular basis as well as those who follow on GFC, Twitter, Facebook (<—yup, I included my link if you wanna follow!) and all of the other social networking, bookmarking and media sites I try to keep up with.
Having reached a certain measure of success (recognitions?) with this blog, It’s a woman’s world!, means that I’m offered opportunities to write more and more paid posts. That’s great for me because although I started my blog to share my life and fuel my joy of writing, I also wanted it to supplement my income. You see, I was a work-at-home mom before I started this. I was a freelance writer who mainly wrote magazine articles and edit manuscripts. Right around the time everyone’s finances took a nosedive, I was on maternity leave. The few local magazines I wrote for went through some major changes: A couple cut their budgets and one went out of business altogether.
So where does that leave a freelance writer who still needs to make money? Oh, and to add to it, I was separated from my now ex-husband and eight months pregnant. I turned to the web to discover how to amp up my blog and make money writing web content. Being the single parent of four children I have to make sure I can be as focused and organized as possible – that means I can only manage one blog.
All of that has led me discover why some bloggers start another blog – or two – so that their main, most popular, one isn’t drowning in paid posts. I’m happy to have the opportunities that are presented to me and over the past week or so there have been several reviews (are you really not gonna comment just ‘cause I got a free product or book?), numerous paid posts and the like with only a splattering of my life. Since this is a woman’s world – that woman being me – I can make it whatever I want it to be, but I notice everyday lately for as many Twitter followers that I get at least one drops off. Is it because I haven’t managed to follow back or that a lot of my tweets are about the paid or sponsored posts that I write? I must insert that I’ve been so busy the past two months with the financial repercussions of my daughter’s auto accident and my health that my creative muse and fuel to talk about life in general has been dormant.
I want those who read my blog to read it because they genuinely like me. I think I’ve mentioned this before: The bloggers that I really like I read the majority of their posts – even the paid or sponsored ones – because I like them. Because I support them. And I’ll even comment sometimes. Yes, only if I have something to say that’s relevant, but I look for the chance to do that. I know, if they’re like me, that they’re only trying to supplement their income and they’re not taking advantage of me or wasting my time. I may not be interested in something they’re writing about, but that doesn’t make me stop following them.
I get a little sad when I see a follower has dropped off or there are a bunch of posts without comments and I wonder what I’m doing wrong. But I have to continue what I’m doing and try to do it to the best of my ability because it is apart of what puts food on the table, gas in my car and whatever else we need or want.
In other blogging worlds more than one blog is created to balance out the paid and sponsored posts from all the fun, everyday stuff, but in this world – this woman’s world – I have to do a little of both. And believe me, I don’t just throw stuff up all willy nilly and I hope that you’ll at least find the writing interesting enough to read it even if you don’t agree with the content.
So bloggers: Do you have more than one blog? What’s your opinion of the paid and sponsored posts among the everyday stuff? If you don’t like it at all then please share why (you’ll probably want to add why you don’t watch television commercials either! LOL).
Until next time…


10 folks a chattin':
Thought I was following you on Twitter and just found out I'm not (why does Twitter randomly unfollow people?!? Argh!) Anyway, that's fixed. :)
I know what you mean about posts without comments...I think every blogger wonders what they're doing wrong or why no one commented when that happens. I try to remind myself that 1) we all get busy and there are plenty of great posts I didn't see because I wasn't online that day (or several days, sometimes), and 2) how many times have I read a post I liked but couldn't think of anything better to say than "That was great, thanks for sharing" or something along those lines and don't want to sound lame?
I can't really comment on the paid aspect, since I've never had that experience (yet). And now my kids are getting into something and I can't think of anything else to say. ;)
I only have one blog because I can barely keep up with that these days--can't imagine having more. Oh wait--I help out with Red Cat Society too. Opps. I guess I have two blogs.
I think you really have to work the other blogs and leave comments to get comments back. I've found that when I'm m.i.a., so are the return visits and comments.
As for paid posts, I don't read them typically. I just don't have time. I like the personal connections with the blogs and so I come for that--the personal stories. While I understand the paid posts, I just don't have much to say to them, hence no comment.
There are a few blogs that I know of that do a lot of paid posts--but I continue to visit, I just sort of hop past the "ads" and move onto the stories that I enjoy.
The thought of maintaining more than one blog makes my head hurt. I don't write any paid post, but I don't know those that do. If it's a product that interests me, I'll read it and maybe comment. I don't skip it just because it's paid. If a blogger that I like becomes 100% reviews and advertisements, I'd probably stop reading eventually.
Great perspectives, ladies. Totally understand. Wendy, LOL, that happens to me so much. The children will start talking to me and I look back only to realize I was in the middle of a sentence or thought and have no idea what I was going to say.
right now I am maintaining 5 blogs, and it is tiring but i do love it. its my passion and will be doing it for long. loving my work, enjoying my hobby and earning from it.woohoo!
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I read your blog definitely because I genuinely like you! Who wouldn't like you?
I'm trying to do two blogs: one devoted to my favorite hobby (heroclixin.wordpress.com) and a second that's more serious (kharisampson.wordpress.com). I started the former to get in the habit of blogging and writing and have developed something of a following (according to the hit tracker, anyway) but have yet to monetize it one whit. The latter blog I just can't seem to keep going. :/
I've heard that successful blogs tend to have a fairly laser-focus on their subject matter. I'm finding that's very true in case: my fun blog is quite focused while my serious one, being closer to an editorial opinion column, is all over the place.
But yes: liking the blogger definitely makes a difference.
Hi Petula.
I like you, but I rarely have time to visit you. Life is so busy that I rarely have time to visit the people who leave me comments. That is why I am here today -- you commented on yesterday's post. :o) Goes to show how little time I have right now.
I didn't even realize you did product reviews (now isn't that something?) because I must normally catch you when you're sharing about your daughter. However, I have to admit I skipped right over your book review to find this post that grabbed my interest.
I rarely read reviews unless it is a product that captures my attention. If your review had been about a spiritual book: Holy Spirit, Breaking Free, Strongholds ... stuff that captures my interests, I would have been the first to comment. :o) It has nothing to do with not supporting a fellow blogger, but lack of time. So I have to spend it wisely.
I need to make money with my blog, but I really don't know how to do it without advertising, etc ... ha -- so no money for my blog. Sigh.
Lady, no way could I manage more than one blog. Yikes!
Bless you!
Beth
http://mydestinysharinghope.com/
I totally understand that, Beth. Time is so short nowadays. I'm glad you made it by today though and I won't hold the review skipping against you! LOL Yes, making money on the blog is a challenge. The ads don't work very well for me so I choose to do the paid posts and I just love writing reviews. I used to do that when I worked at a magazine full time - it was one of the best things about the job.
I can totally relate to not being able to manage more than one blog, Petula! And lately, I haven't even done a great job of managing my one! I don't write product reviews, but I certainly wouldn't stop following a writer I enjoy who does (unless she ONLY wrote product reviews about products I have no interest in).
I enjoy your blog and hope you have great success earning money through the web.
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