Jacqueline, the great blogger of Blessings Abound, is hosting another giveaway: A Seventh Generation Under The Sink Makeover Contest Promotion and Giveaway. The prize for the randomly chosen winner is a Seventh Generation Living Home Starter Kit Prize Package (a $35 value that contains a variety of home-cleaning products to do a complete under the kitchen sink makeover).
I haven't been entering too many giveaways lately, but I thought this is a good one to enter. Pop by Blessings Abound and enter too. Good luck.
Friday, July 31, 2009
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Car insurance quotes
If you're continually trying to reduce your monthly expenses, take a closer look to see what you're paying for your car insurance. Not sure you're getting the best deal? Then it's a good idea to obtain car insurance quotes.
Most places will compare the amount you're paying and the details of your policy to the major competing companies and give you all the details you need to make an educated decision. Sometimes you'll discover that you're paying way more than you need to and other times you may find out that your insurance company and the rate are still the best choice.
When getting a new policy, don't assume that your current company is the best choice. Take the time to get insurance quotes in order to save yourself a little money. Besides wouldn't it be nice to save for a special trip, pay off another bill or just put some money away for your future? Take a minute to do that today.
Most places will compare the amount you're paying and the details of your policy to the major competing companies and give you all the details you need to make an educated decision. Sometimes you'll discover that you're paying way more than you need to and other times you may find out that your insurance company and the rate are still the best choice.
When getting a new policy, don't assume that your current company is the best choice. Take the time to get insurance quotes in order to save yourself a little money. Besides wouldn't it be nice to save for a special trip, pay off another bill or just put some money away for your future? Take a minute to do that today.
Dark, rainy days
Waking up to a dark sky and a rainy day always makes me want to pull the covers over my head and go back to sleep. Or, at the least, stay in bed with a good book and a cup of coffee or tea. Unfortunately, I had to get up to make sure my teenager made it out of the house in time for her doctor's appointment, greet the youngest children who spent a couple of days with their father and get started on my day's work and chores.
I'm sitting at my computer thinking about sleep (Maybe I'm extra tired 'cause I ran out of refills on one of my prescriptions and haven't heard from the doctor or pharmacy.) and wondering if I have time to take a nap today. I'm yawning and stretching, but still trying to get stuff done. I realized that I really must be tired when I get a call and my friend says, "You still in bed?"
Ut oh, I even sound sleepy.
I guess I should stop procrastinating now and instead of telling you how tired I am I better get finished checking my email. How's the weather where you are?
I'm sitting at my computer thinking about sleep (Maybe I'm extra tired 'cause I ran out of refills on one of my prescriptions and haven't heard from the doctor or pharmacy.) and wondering if I have time to take a nap today. I'm yawning and stretching, but still trying to get stuff done. I realized that I really must be tired when I get a call and my friend says, "You still in bed?"Ut oh, I even sound sleepy.
I guess I should stop procrastinating now and instead of telling you how tired I am I better get finished checking my email. How's the weather where you are?
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
"Real Church: Does it Exist? Can I find it?" by Larry Crabb
On the Woman's Bookshelf
Many "believers" think about their church attendance and its effect on their relationship with God. That's why today we're going to delve a little into Larry Crabb's book, "Real Church: Does it exist? Can I find it?"
Crabb says, "Church as I know it usually leaves deep parts of me dormant, unawakened, and untouched... I don't much like going to church." That's a telling statement of what fueled the book and throughout it readers go along for the ride as Crabb considers why he's feeling unsatisfied with traditional churches and the kind of church he believes God wants us to be a part of.
"Read Church" is an intriguing, interesting and compelling read that's filled with enlightening observations, entertaining phrasing as well as eye-opening passages and analogies. For instance, he says, "I don't think a gathering of Christians whose main purpose is to get people saved and to get saved people moral is church."
Dr. Larry Crabb, a psychologist, seminar speaker, Bible teacher, author and founder/director of NewWay Ministries, reveals that more and more people - regardless of their Christian status, so to speak - are experiencing the same emotions and doubts when it comes to church. Ultimately, as the Bible says and Crabb explains, we need the community of Christians on a regular basis so we know God wants us to attend church. But what type of church? In the end, Crabb breaks down the exact church he believes is "a real church," and what he says makes perfect - and biblical - sense to me.
Do you agree? Get a copy of "Real Church" to find out.
Many "believers" think about their church attendance and its effect on their relationship with God. That's why today we're going to delve a little into Larry Crabb's book, "Real Church: Does it exist? Can I find it?"
Crabb says, "Church as I know it usually leaves deep parts of me dormant, unawakened, and untouched... I don't much like going to church." That's a telling statement of what fueled the book and throughout it readers go along for the ride as Crabb considers why he's feeling unsatisfied with traditional churches and the kind of church he believes God wants us to be a part of."Read Church" is an intriguing, interesting and compelling read that's filled with enlightening observations, entertaining phrasing as well as eye-opening passages and analogies. For instance, he says, "I don't think a gathering of Christians whose main purpose is to get people saved and to get saved people moral is church."
Dr. Larry Crabb, a psychologist, seminar speaker, Bible teacher, author and founder/director of NewWay Ministries, reveals that more and more people - regardless of their Christian status, so to speak - are experiencing the same emotions and doubts when it comes to church. Ultimately, as the Bible says and Crabb explains, we need the community of Christians on a regular basis so we know God wants us to attend church. But what type of church? In the end, Crabb breaks down the exact church he believes is "a real church," and what he says makes perfect - and biblical - sense to me.
Do you agree? Get a copy of "Real Church" to find out.
My frugal teen
Ever since my daughter, Amber, was a young child I've taken her shopping with me. I showed her how to pick out the best deals, use coupons, choose fruits and vegetables and a number of other shopping "talents" that women need to know. I am so proud that she has continued to shop frugally regardless of whether she's using my money or hers.
Amber, who's now 18, and her three college roommates share the task of buying groceries and supplies for their dorm suite. About two nights ago Amber sat down with her sales papers, her Sunday coupons and her shopping list to decide what she was going to purchase and where. She spent quite a bit of time planning.
Her budget was $78. She left the house around 4 or 5 p.m. and didn't return 'til almost 11. And, she went to three or four stores.
We didn't feel like breaking down everything into stores or listing everything, but I did want to share the pictures:
She spent less than $78, bought a lot of buy one get one free, used coupons (saving almost $20 at Kroger, I think) and she bought two of those giant storage containers. You can only see the lid of one in the picture.
There ya have it. If I haven't passed on any other wisdom to my teen, I know at least that she'll save some money. Actually, I'm hoping she learned some other stuff too! What am I saying? She just made taco salad for three teenagers, a toddler, a pre-schooler, kindergartner and me. Doesn't she rock!
Amber, who's now 18, and her three college roommates share the task of buying groceries and supplies for their dorm suite. About two nights ago Amber sat down with her sales papers, her Sunday coupons and her shopping list to decide what she was going to purchase and where. She spent quite a bit of time planning.
Her budget was $78. She left the house around 4 or 5 p.m. and didn't return 'til almost 11. And, she went to three or four stores.
We didn't feel like breaking down everything into stores or listing everything, but I did want to share the pictures:
She spent less than $78, bought a lot of buy one get one free, used coupons (saving almost $20 at Kroger, I think) and she bought two of those giant storage containers. You can only see the lid of one in the picture.
There ya have it. If I haven't passed on any other wisdom to my teen, I know at least that she'll save some money. Actually, I'm hoping she learned some other stuff too! What am I saying? She just made taco salad for three teenagers, a toddler, a pre-schooler, kindergartner and me. Doesn't she rock!
Monday, July 27, 2009
Get your student campus ready
College-bound students, and parents of said students, should check out 
Sears CampusReady application on Facebook. It can really help in preparing for this new educational experience.
Sears CampusReady application on Facebook. It can really help in preparing for this new educational experience.
Magazine addiction defeated, pile dwindled
It's been quite awhile since I updated you on my magazine addiction problem. If you don't remember or you're new here then check out the pictures these pictures that I included in previous posts:
A quick recap: I love reading magazines and used to order every free subscription I came across, and I subscribed to one of my favorites (Oprah) and received one as a gift (Women's Day) that I already had a free subscription to. Due to my schedule and lifestyle the magazines piled up to a ridiculous level.
The result: The overabundance of magazines cured me of my addiction.
Here's the current pile:
I hope to be finished with this pile very soon and I will definitely be glad when my current subscriptions run out. The only magazine I plan on subscribing to right now is All You, even if I have to pay for it, because there are tons of coupons and bunches of money-saving ideas.
A quick recap: I love reading magazines and used to order every free subscription I came across, and I subscribed to one of my favorites (Oprah) and received one as a gift (Women's Day) that I already had a free subscription to. Due to my schedule and lifestyle the magazines piled up to a ridiculous level. The result: The overabundance of magazines cured me of my addiction.Here's the current pile:
I hope to be finished with this pile very soon and I will definitely be glad when my current subscriptions run out. The only magazine I plan on subscribing to right now is All You, even if I have to pay for it, because there are tons of coupons and bunches of money-saving ideas.
Choose a vacation rental
My teenager and a group of her friends are going to Savannah this weekend. They've pooled their resources and planned a trip with activities, outings and local attractions. I've always wanted to do something similar like travel with close friends and family who would all go in on a vacation rental. It's one of the best ways to travel and reduce expenses.
Monday's Muse: Indulgence & deadlines
Over at Maternal Spark we were encouraged to indulge ourselves a little today. Indulgence can work the same way relaxing does. (Well, for some relaxing is indulgent.) Sometimes when you focus on something else - especially something that renews your mind, body and soul - you are inspired by your muse.
My indulgence today, and I know better, was about six ounces of coffee after 5 p.m. I had a headache and was really a grump so I figured I needed a little caffeine boost since I hadn't had any today.
I am happy I indulged.
I don't think it's possible to continue to indulge myself this week because I have some deadlines to meet. Well, there is that Atlanta blogger's "personal time" on Thursday evening that I plan on attending, but other than that I'm going to make sure I accomplish everything that's necessary.
As you go through your week, find something - an activity, a treat, a person - that makes you feel like you indulged. It's good for your soul and for your muse.
I try to contribute to Monday's Muse each week so check out my last one. Then head over to the Monday's Muse headquarters at Maternal Spark.
My indulgence today, and I know better, was about six ounces of coffee after 5 p.m. I had a headache and was really a grump so I figured I needed a little caffeine boost since I hadn't had any today.I am happy I indulged.
I don't think it's possible to continue to indulge myself this week because I have some deadlines to meet. Well, there is that Atlanta blogger's "personal time" on Thursday evening that I plan on attending, but other than that I'm going to make sure I accomplish everything that's necessary.
As you go through your week, find something - an activity, a treat, a person - that makes you feel like you indulged. It's good for your soul and for your muse.
I try to contribute to Monday's Muse each week so check out my last one. Then head over to the Monday's Muse headquarters at Maternal Spark.
Children's apparel
I know most people like to dress their children nicely whether they put them in designer baby clothes or not. Now you can find some designer clothes for your children, like Appaman, for reasonable prices at Lou Lou's Corner.
Besides the cute little clothes, Lou Lou's Corner carries Jellycat stuffed toys that kids are sure to love. They're plush, cute and there are lots of options. Another soft choice: Barefoot Dreams CozyChic Collection. It's a line of luxurious blankets and throws for the entire family. There are robes, hoodies and v-necks. I was checking out some of the products and they look perfect for cuddling, relaxing and hanging out.
As a matter of fact, I don't think I saw anything at Lou Lou's Corner that I didn't like, so I may be a little biased. You check it out then come back and let me know what you thought.
Besides the cute little clothes, Lou Lou's Corner carries Jellycat stuffed toys that kids are sure to love. They're plush, cute and there are lots of options. Another soft choice: Barefoot Dreams CozyChic Collection. It's a line of luxurious blankets and throws for the entire family. There are robes, hoodies and v-necks. I was checking out some of the products and they look perfect for cuddling, relaxing and hanging out.
As a matter of fact, I don't think I saw anything at Lou Lou's Corner that I didn't like, so I may be a little biased. You check it out then come back and let me know what you thought.
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Seasons of friendship
I was watching an episode of Army Wives on Amber's laptop (Remember the television situation?) and there was a scene where Roland was "informing" three of his friends that they hadn't been there for one of their other friends. The three women made excuses about why they hadn't been around, which caused him to reveal a secret to them to illustrate what they had done wrong.
It wasn't right what the woman had done, but they were wrong for shunning her. That scene brought tears to my eyes because it showed how people will throw away a friendship based on their own beliefs and lack of caring for someone else. What I mean is: I've experienced the lost of "friends" (you know how I feel about that word) and "family" (in laws) because of individuals taking sides or having weird, for lack of a better work, beliefs.
Before I decided not to work things out with my husband, I had a girlfriend who I spoke to on quite a regular basis. Our children played together. We met for lunch and whatnot. And, in general, we were there for each other. At least I thought we were. She started pulling away after my decision and I am under the impression that she didn't want a single woman around her husband. Either that or she couldn't be my friend because of my decision.
To me that means she wasn't a friend at all. That's not really my point though. My point is that although I am hurt by her turning her back on me; I am trying to think that it's possible that her friendship - that relationship - was only for a season. That's what I say to make myself feel a little better.
In case you're wondering, I did continue to call and try to make arrangements to get together but it often doesn't work out. Whereas we were seeing each other several times per month, I may - if I am lucky - see her several times a year. And I can't remember the last time she's initiated contact.
True relationships - sincere friendships - are important. I hope I am a good pal to those I call friend.
It wasn't right what the woman had done, but they were wrong for shunning her. That scene brought tears to my eyes because it showed how people will throw away a friendship based on their own beliefs and lack of caring for someone else. What I mean is: I've experienced the lost of "friends" (you know how I feel about that word) and "family" (in laws) because of individuals taking sides or having weird, for lack of a better work, beliefs.
Before I decided not to work things out with my husband, I had a girlfriend who I spoke to on quite a regular basis. Our children played together. We met for lunch and whatnot. And, in general, we were there for each other. At least I thought we were. She started pulling away after my decision and I am under the impression that she didn't want a single woman around her husband. Either that or she couldn't be my friend because of my decision.To me that means she wasn't a friend at all. That's not really my point though. My point is that although I am hurt by her turning her back on me; I am trying to think that it's possible that her friendship - that relationship - was only for a season. That's what I say to make myself feel a little better.
In case you're wondering, I did continue to call and try to make arrangements to get together but it often doesn't work out. Whereas we were seeing each other several times per month, I may - if I am lucky - see her several times a year. And I can't remember the last time she's initiated contact.
True relationships - sincere friendships - are important. I hope I am a good pal to those I call friend.
Shopping for school, saving money
I have been finding so many amazing blogs and websites that list deals and savings. Actually I've been quite amazed by what I've come across. In fact, it has given me a new outlook and a lot of resources to helping me, my family and friends save money.
Now, given the time of year, most of us are shopping for school supplies and in the process will be getting things for most of our children regardless of their educational status. My teenager is shopping for groceries for her and her college roommates who live in a suite on campus as well as additional items for her dorm room like storage and decorative items. My 5-year-old son will be a kindergartner and needs uniforms, paper, pencils, a backpack and a number of other things. My second daughter, who's 4, will be going to pre-kindergarten readiness at the county headstart program and she'll need jeans and other fall and winter items because she's definitely gotten taller. And, the toddler - my baby, is gonna need fall and winter items as well. I'm also going to get her some educational books so she'll have homework to do like her siblings.
That's quite a list, but thanks to Walgreens coupons I don't even have to leave the house to stock up on supplies for the smaller kids. As far as Amber is concerned, she's taking care of most of her shopping, the biggest thing we have to get is textbooks. I hope she's able to use some A1 Books coupons to help with that expense.
Now, given the time of year, most of us are shopping for school supplies and in the process will be getting things for most of our children regardless of their educational status. My teenager is shopping for groceries for her and her college roommates who live in a suite on campus as well as additional items for her dorm room like storage and decorative items. My 5-year-old son will be a kindergartner and needs uniforms, paper, pencils, a backpack and a number of other things. My second daughter, who's 4, will be going to pre-kindergarten readiness at the county headstart program and she'll need jeans and other fall and winter items because she's definitely gotten taller. And, the toddler - my baby, is gonna need fall and winter items as well. I'm also going to get her some educational books so she'll have homework to do like her siblings.
That's quite a list, but thanks to Walgreens coupons I don't even have to leave the house to stock up on supplies for the smaller kids. As far as Amber is concerned, she's taking care of most of her shopping, the biggest thing we have to get is textbooks. I hope she's able to use some A1 Books coupons to help with that expense.
Slow drops, missing comments
Keeping up with everything can be difficult as a woman (whether you're single, married, etc.) and I've come to realize something: I can't always keep up with all of the dropping and commenting I want to do.
I try to comment on every blog I visit when I'm dropping, which means I don't always get to the 300 goal of a serious dropper. It also means I sometimes don't get to my favorite blogs, my followers, my regular readers or those who visit me.
How do you prioritize which ones you drop on and which ones you comment on? Do you try to always do both?
Well, it seems like my heart-felt necessity is causing me to lose commentors. I think. But, on a good note, I'm making new friends. So, I hope that my old friends are still coming by and forgive me for not always getting to their blogs. I also hope my new friends will stick it out with me.
Want I want to convey to you all is: I really appreciate every single one of you.
I try to comment on every blog I visit when I'm dropping, which means I don't always get to the 300 goal of a serious dropper. It also means I sometimes don't get to my favorite blogs, my followers, my regular readers or those who visit me.
How do you prioritize which ones you drop on and which ones you comment on? Do you try to always do both?
Well, it seems like my heart-felt necessity is causing me to lose commentors. I think. But, on a good note, I'm making new friends. So, I hope that my old friends are still coming by and forgive me for not always getting to their blogs. I also hope my new friends will stick it out with me.
Want I want to convey to you all is: I really appreciate every single one of you.
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Remote computer access
I have a friend (actually my oldest daughter's godfather) who is a self-taught computer geek. We both live in Georgia, but he's two hours away from me. When I have problems with my computer he's able to access it from where he is using remote desktop software.
This type of software allows one computer to access or control another one through the Internet. So when my friend accesses my computer he can troubleshoot, access files or data and collaborate with me on whatever I am complaining about. I have found it to be a really convenient way to get my computer worked on and I don't have to worry about taking it somewhere to get it looked out.
Nowadays companies that work on computers of course have the same type of capabilities. The remote desktop software is a business-oriented service that is secure. One of the best things I like about software like this is I don't have to be sitting at my computer for him to access it. He can see the computers in the house that are available in my network and any number of tasks.
Imagine having this set up in your office. With this software you can also have your tech team remotely accessing the computers under your charge without the operator knowing it. Whether it's for security reasons or to keep from bothering someone who is working.
This remote access software has 256-bit encryption, which is the highest in its class. I love a service and product like this, and if I had a large network of computers it would definitely be the type of software I would use to maintain performance and reliability of my systems.
This type of software allows one computer to access or control another one through the Internet. So when my friend accesses my computer he can troubleshoot, access files or data and collaborate with me on whatever I am complaining about. I have found it to be a really convenient way to get my computer worked on and I don't have to worry about taking it somewhere to get it looked out.
Nowadays companies that work on computers of course have the same type of capabilities. The remote desktop software is a business-oriented service that is secure. One of the best things I like about software like this is I don't have to be sitting at my computer for him to access it. He can see the computers in the house that are available in my network and any number of tasks.
Imagine having this set up in your office. With this software you can also have your tech team remotely accessing the computers under your charge without the operator knowing it. Whether it's for security reasons or to keep from bothering someone who is working.
This remote access software has 256-bit encryption, which is the highest in its class. I love a service and product like this, and if I had a large network of computers it would definitely be the type of software I would use to maintain performance and reliability of my systems.
Friday, July 24, 2009
Excited children, tired adults, crazy teens
Today was one of those Fridays where I just kind of went with the flow. Last night I remembered (was reminded?) that I was supposed to go with the daycare children to Maxx Fun, an indoor family entertainment center with rides, games, etc. Most people know that I don't like to go anywhere like that unless my mind is ready. Meaning: I have gotten myself prepared for the noise, the questions, the repeating myself, helping little people, being tired and hungry, etc.
Since I forgot, I didn't really get my mind right, but I went along with a good attitude because I knew I would have fun talking to and hanging out with Kellie (who I think of as a sister!). I was running late, got in the car and realized the teenager didn't let me know I was on "E" (She used the van all day yesterday) and proceeded on my way.
After picking up the field trip money from the children's dad, arriving at Kellie's, getting everyone to use the restroom, deciding to go back home and get Amber, stopping to get gas... we finally made it to our destination. The children had a ball! They enjoyed the rides, played the games and climbed through the tunnel, ball, slide thingy.
The teenagers tackled every game in their effort to gain as many tickets as they could. They laughed, teased, dragged and chased (me when I grab some tickets and ran!). By the time Kellie said we were ready to go I was tired, but happy.
One of the most exciting things about the day was the fact that Anna (you know, my 2 year old) wore panties the entire day and did not have an accident. She went from a potty training no go to an expert overnight. I am so proud, but I'll have to tell you more about that later. (If you're interested in my potty training adventures then click here.)
We took the kids to McDonalds for lunch and made the trip home. I didn't get any pictures of the teens or anything else... as you can see my mind seems to be a little off 'cause this post is kind of rambling and thrown together.
Enjoy the pictures though! LOL
Since I forgot, I didn't really get my mind right, but I went along with a good attitude because I knew I would have fun talking to and hanging out with Kellie (who I think of as a sister!). I was running late, got in the car and realized the teenager didn't let me know I was on "E" (She used the van all day yesterday) and proceeded on my way.
After picking up the field trip money from the children's dad, arriving at Kellie's, getting everyone to use the restroom, deciding to go back home and get Amber, stopping to get gas... we finally made it to our destination. The children had a ball! They enjoyed the rides, played the games and climbed through the tunnel, ball, slide thingy.
The teenagers tackled every game in their effort to gain as many tickets as they could. They laughed, teased, dragged and chased (me when I grab some tickets and ran!). By the time Kellie said we were ready to go I was tired, but happy.
One of the most exciting things about the day was the fact that Anna (you know, my 2 year old) wore panties the entire day and did not have an accident. She went from a potty training no go to an expert overnight. I am so proud, but I'll have to tell you more about that later. (If you're interested in my potty training adventures then click here.)
We took the kids to McDonalds for lunch and made the trip home. I didn't get any pictures of the teens or anything else... as you can see my mind seems to be a little off 'cause this post is kind of rambling and thrown together.
Enjoy the pictures though! LOL
Thursday, July 23, 2009
Help for back pain
Spending so much time on my computer causes my back to hurt. Normally I try to take a break as often as I can, but I've learned that there are back exercises that can help to reduce back pain.
Back2Yourself.com has great pictures and instructions for doing the exercises. And it's more than pictures; it also includes video instruction, progress tracking and professional support.
If you have trouble with back pain then check out Back2Yourself.com, they offer a free trial and free access to exercise pages. The actual program includes daily routine with video play list and there's a lot more than just a list of exercises.
Back2Yourself.com has great pictures and instructions for doing the exercises. And it's more than pictures; it also includes video instruction, progress tracking and professional support.
If you have trouble with back pain then check out Back2Yourself.com, they offer a free trial and free access to exercise pages. The actual program includes daily routine with video play list and there's a lot more than just a list of exercises.
I kinda miss TV
I think I mentioned not too long ago that there's a ghost in my television. Well, I guess it's not a ghost... the TV has decided to die.More than two months ago the television started turning off on its own. It happened one day when I was home alone and I thought it a little odd, but I figured it was a fluke. It came back on and I didn't think nothing else about it until a few weeks later when Amber was watching it.
Suddenly I heard her say, "Hey!"
"Oh, did the TV go off? I forgot to tell you about that. It happened to me the other day."
It started off happening once every two weeks, then once a week, then a few times a week, a few times a day... now it turns on and off so fast I can't even sneak in 45 minutes of a show that I've recorded on DVR. It won't let you turn it off anymore so I keep it on the DVR menu, which goes to a screen saver, so that the noises of television don't scare us to death.
It is now very annoying.
Not only that, but I record all the shows I like to watch and sit down during my lunch or whenever the kids aren't around and I have a moment to become engrossed in a show in peace. It's not something I do often, but when I do it I really enjoy it.
I have quite a few electronic things around here that have decided not to work and I was thinking of posting them for sale on CraigsList as parts. I'm sure there's a techno gadget geek person out there that needs part for an old exercise bike that lost its tension, a couple of TVs that don't work, some computer parts and whatever else I find that is supposed to run on electricity.
In the meantime, maybe I can find my favorite shows online. As if I don't spend enough time here. :)
Secure your home
There is more than one way to maintain home security, but one of the best and most common ways is to get a security system. Quortek offers home monitoring systems from ADT Security, which is one of the popular systems used by consumers.
We don't want to take chances on our or our families safety so be sure to find the home monitoring system that works best for you.
We don't want to take chances on our or our families safety so be sure to find the home monitoring system that works best for you.
Sibling interactions
Two peas in a pod. Don't they look sweet and innocent? Don't let them fool you.As most people know I have four children; three girls and a boy. Although my girls can kick up some drama, my boy is the most emotional of them all. Unfortunately the sister who is closest to his age plays into this.
A typical conversation between them could go like this:
"Amareah, the sky is blue," Andre says.
"Hmmm, no it's yellow," she'll respond mischievously.
Now as soon as I hear the beginning of this conversation I know that she's about to aggravate him. Sometimes she does it because she's trying to get back at him for something he did to her and other times she is just being a little ... uh... mean.
The conversation continues:
"No, it's blue," he says with his voice slightly rising.
"It's yellow," she says with the calmest voice I've ever heard.
"Blue!" Now he's raising his voice.
"Nope, yellow."
"BLUE!!!" He screams at the top of his lungs, tears brimming.
"Yellow," she insists, still calm, while slowly backing away from him.
I think they are so adorable when they're getting along (LOL). Here they are during international day at their headstart this past school year. They're only 15 months apart in age.Now he's screaming incoherently, flailing around, throwing himself to the floor, pounding his fists and all sorts of unpleasantness. Most of the time we - me and my three daughters - just sit there and look at him. Sometimes we're trying not to laugh. And other times I wait until he's calmed down some and send him to his room to get himself together.
Later I'll talk to him about ignoring his sister, not letting her get to him and remembering that she's doing it on purpose. Has that worked? Nope, not yet.
Then I'll talk to Amareah about instigating, antagonizing and being mean to her brother. That hasn't worked either. I'm sure eventually they'll leave each other alone, but until then I'll play referee sometimes. Mostly, I wait to see if they're going to work it out on their own - whatever their disagreement is - and they haven't permanently hurt each other yet.
I love when they pose nicely together.What's amazing is how they act like they can't live without each other. Right this moment they're eating their snack and having a conversation about ... well, I have no idea what about 'cause I don't understand. I think it's a story they've made up.
They will cry for each other, pout if the other isn't around or bug me to no end about each other. But then there are those moments when I hear some tussling, screaming and yells for help and I pretend like I don't hear a thing. I've heard this is normal sibling interactions so I don't worry too much. I just make sure the toddler gets out of the direct line of fire.
Compare Direct TV to cable
When it comes right down to it I try to avoid changing account details. You know, like comparing insurance rates or telephone services. I just don't like the monotony of it all and it can get a bit confusing.
But when I saw the link to compare Direct TV to my current cable provider, I thought, "What the heck! Might as well take a look." According to DirectSATTV.com, my cable is lacking. The Direct TV Service includes 130 plus HD Channels (and they plan to add more), highest customer satisfaction, local channels included, no activation fee, 100 percent digital quality, the most sport in high definition and exclusive packages including NFL Sunday Ticket, NASCAR HotPass, NCAA Mega March Madness and MLB Extra Innings.
There are only two things on the list that my cable has and possibly another. I guess if I was really into television then that would be important to me. (Well, actually my television died so...) For most folks, getting the top Direct TV System is essential and they definitely need to compare packages before they make a choice.
But when I saw the link to compare Direct TV to my current cable provider, I thought, "What the heck! Might as well take a look." According to DirectSATTV.com, my cable is lacking. The Direct TV Service includes 130 plus HD Channels (and they plan to add more), highest customer satisfaction, local channels included, no activation fee, 100 percent digital quality, the most sport in high definition and exclusive packages including NFL Sunday Ticket, NASCAR HotPass, NCAA Mega March Madness and MLB Extra Innings.
There are only two things on the list that my cable has and possibly another. I guess if I was really into television then that would be important to me. (Well, actually my television died so...) For most folks, getting the top Direct TV System is essential and they definitely need to compare packages before they make a choice.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Ouch, yuck!
I have been a little itchy lately. It's not anything new... sometimes I itch when I'm anxious or when something is bothering me. I often don't even realize when I am doing it. Sometimes I itch when I am grossed out like when talking about critters or yucky skin ailments. Lately, I've been feeling itchy and scratching because I have a couple of bug bites.Well, as I sit here knowing that I need to shut down and turn in, I've been wiggling and scratching. All of a sudden I feel pain and burning on my right wrist. I look down and I am immediately grossed out. I have scratched the skin off of a small burn. It must have started itching because it was healing and I scratched it (repeatedly!) unconsciously.
I had forgotten all about the burn. I didn't think it was that bad. Now I know I need to go to bed. Thanks to my compulsive scratching I'll have to add cleaning the burn to my bedtime routine.
G'nite. Sleep well.
Finding the best wrinkle cream
I'm always searching for skincare products that work fabulously on my skin. I've gotten many compliments over the years so I continue to try to keep my skin in prime condition. That's why when I find the Best Wrinkle Cream I'll be sure to share it with you.
Not gonna bite my tongue
I am going to try to make this as non-vent like as I can, but if I seem to go off on a tangent please excuse me. I've been stewing on this subject for quite some time and had decided to let it go, but it was a comment left on one of my posts today that really bugged me.
The comment I'm referring to was worded very nicely. It was neither disrespect nor rude, but I did think there was an underlying judgment. In a nutshell it said, 'I came by to see what's going on with your life, but it's nothing but advertisements.'
It was left on a paid post and directly under that is a few product reviews. I want to make something very clear: 99 percent of the product and books I review are done because I want to do them. Every product and every book I have reviewed I either requested it from the public relations person, the author, happened upon it myself or accepted it from a program that inquired as to whether I'd be interested. The only "perk" I get is the privilege to try the products for free. I am not paid to do so.
Reviewing stuff is something I absolutely love to do. It's a part of this woman's life. I am a journalist by trade and education, and I have worked as an editor in the magazine industry. When I found out I could do this on my own without having to work full time for a magazine I jumped at the chance. (I did the same with travel writing awhile back.) Not only do I give honest opinions, but I think that the products I talk about are ones I think those who read my blog are interested in. For the most part.
Secondly: I write paid posts because that's the only steady income I have. I am a single mother going through a divorce and raising four children on my own. Currently, I get NO financial assistance from my children's fathers. Once again I love to write and if I find a paid post that interests me and brings in some dough then I must - and like - to do it.
That brings me to the last thing. I have noticed that comments have dwindled (well, they were never that high) since I've been doing more paid posts. Should I stop because for some reason folks are offended by them? I think not. When I go to a "friend's" blog and they have paid posts I comment if I'm interested, sometimes I comment if I'm not interested, I generally non-judgmentally respect their decision to write what they deem fit on their blog and I wouldn't dream of making a comment about them that could hurt their feelings. Regardless of how nicely it was worded.
Those who think the paid posts and reviews are wrong; I respect that opinion. But unless you are supporting my household or something then it would be nice if you kept your damn opinion to yourself.
Yup, you guessed it, I just had to get that off of my chest. If you took the time to read this and put up with my little bit of venom, "Thank you!"
The comment I'm referring to was worded very nicely. It was neither disrespect nor rude, but I did think there was an underlying judgment. In a nutshell it said, 'I came by to see what's going on with your life, but it's nothing but advertisements.'
It was left on a paid post and directly under that is a few product reviews. I want to make something very clear: 99 percent of the product and books I review are done because I want to do them. Every product and every book I have reviewed I either requested it from the public relations person, the author, happened upon it myself or accepted it from a program that inquired as to whether I'd be interested. The only "perk" I get is the privilege to try the products for free. I am not paid to do so.
Reviewing stuff is something I absolutely love to do. It's a part of this woman's life. I am a journalist by trade and education, and I have worked as an editor in the magazine industry. When I found out I could do this on my own without having to work full time for a magazine I jumped at the chance. (I did the same with travel writing awhile back.) Not only do I give honest opinions, but I think that the products I talk about are ones I think those who read my blog are interested in. For the most part.
Secondly: I write paid posts because that's the only steady income I have. I am a single mother going through a divorce and raising four children on my own. Currently, I get NO financial assistance from my children's fathers. Once again I love to write and if I find a paid post that interests me and brings in some dough then I must - and like - to do it.
That brings me to the last thing. I have noticed that comments have dwindled (well, they were never that high) since I've been doing more paid posts. Should I stop because for some reason folks are offended by them? I think not. When I go to a "friend's" blog and they have paid posts I comment if I'm interested, sometimes I comment if I'm not interested, I generally non-judgmentally respect their decision to write what they deem fit on their blog and I wouldn't dream of making a comment about them that could hurt their feelings. Regardless of how nicely it was worded.
Those who think the paid posts and reviews are wrong; I respect that opinion. But unless you are supporting my household or something then it would be nice if you kept your damn opinion to yourself.
Yup, you guessed it, I just had to get that off of my chest. If you took the time to read this and put up with my little bit of venom, "Thank you!"
Wordless Wednesday: Little shopper
Take a look at my other Wordless Wednesday photos then hop on over to 5 Minutes for Mom where there are more Wordless Wednesday participants.
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Win a HP 550 Notebook (yup, that's a laptop folks)
From July 15 to September 15 Charter is giving away an HP 550 Notebook 15-inch with Windows Vista and a NeoTec Compu Backpack. And according to their site, it isn't just one - it's one a day!
Charter is following up on the success of their HDTV-A-Day Sweepstakes with this new promotion: Laptop-a-Day Sweepstakes. The contest is planned for the student or businessperson who is always on the go and needs a laptop for easy mobility.
You could also win free gift cards ranging in value from $25 to $100 with special online deals. Winning one of those gift cards would be great because it's just in time for back-to-school shopping. The cards are from major retailers in clothing, home and accessories, restaurants and more.
But you're not going to win anything if you don't visit Charter.com/laptop to register today. While you're there read the complete rules, get a list of winners, check out details on the notebook computer and much more.
To keep up with what's going on with them you can become of fan of Charter on Facebook or follow Charter on Twitter.
Charter is following up on the success of their HDTV-A-Day Sweepstakes with this new promotion: Laptop-a-Day Sweepstakes. The contest is planned for the student or businessperson who is always on the go and needs a laptop for easy mobility.
You could also win free gift cards ranging in value from $25 to $100 with special online deals. Winning one of those gift cards would be great because it's just in time for back-to-school shopping. The cards are from major retailers in clothing, home and accessories, restaurants and more.
But you're not going to win anything if you don't visit Charter.com/laptop to register today. While you're there read the complete rules, get a list of winners, check out details on the notebook computer and much more.
To keep up with what's going on with them you can become of fan of Charter on Facebook or follow Charter on Twitter.
Relastin Eye Silk Update, neuLash eyelash technology - product reviews
Most people who know me know that I am a skincare, lotion, cream fanatic. I like to try new products (well, any product for that matter) and my nighttime routine consists of cleansing, moisturizing lotion, lip conditioning, putting cremes around my eyes, putting vitamin E oil on my cuticles (toes and fingers) and applying foot lotion.
Yes, I really do all of that. That's why when I get the opportunity to test or review a product I always jump at the chance. Here I'm going to update you on two of the products I've already told you about and reveal some results of a new product I've been trying: neuLash® active eyelash technology.
First, the updates:
It was on or about June 23rd that I told you about Revitalift® Deep-Set Wrinkle Repair from L'Oreal Paris®. I'm almost finished using my sample (I ran out of the SPF 15 Day Lotion), but I still have some Night Creme. The best part: I'm pleased with the results.
I began using the product on April 13 and I think it has worked to its complete ability on my skin. I had fine lines that I wanted to minimize and increase my "youthful appearance." The Revitalift helps to repair deep-set wrinkles and you should notice results in about eight weeks.
More than likely I'll continue to use the Night Creme as a part of my skincare routine, but I prefer a day lotion that has more SPF protection.
The Relastin Eye Silk is reportedly the "first product proven to increase elasticity and decrease the signs of aging around the eye," and - like I mentioned in a previous post - a September 2006 study reported that the eye silk also decreases dark circles under the eyes after about four weeks.
Given the amount of rest and sleep I normally get I think the product has done all it can do on my dark circles. I noticed a difference almost immediately. More than likely I'd have continued using the product anyway because it feels so great going on. It has a silky, smooth feeling during application along with a light, pleasant fragrance.
Now for the new review:
I was really excited when I read about neuLash® active eyelash technology, which is touted as a product that can extend the life of your lashes while allowing them to appear fuller and thicker versus a prescription drug. I have very fine, short lashes and I had to see this for myself.
On July 1st, I began using neuLash®. It's in a tube that's similar to mascara and the wand (an eyeliner-like applicator) is a small brush. You apply it by sweeping the product along the base of your upper lashes. I was a little nervous when I first applied it because it felt wet and I thought it would run into my eyes, but it didn't. After the first application - it's applied nightly - I looked forward to the damp, cool feel of the neuLash. It's quite soothing.
When I look in the mirror it appears that my lashes are thicker and longer, but proof is in the photos so I'm going to compare them right now: When I post them it'll be the first time I check out the results (along with you).
The first three photos were taken on July 1st. (Thanks to a rough night of sleep you're getting a nice view of a couple of bags under my eyes!)
The next three were taken today. (BTW: Please ignore my eyebrows! I am always trying to grow them out so I can get them shaped nicely. It's a never-ending cycle!)
I must admit I don't see a difference, but it could just be the quality of the pictures and the fact that they aren't the same as the before ones. What do you think? Do you see a difference?
You'll have to forgive the bad picture taking. It's a little difficult getting pictures of your own eyelashes.
I'm going to continue using neuLash until it is gone because I want to ensure that I'm giving it an adequate chance to do its magic. And it can't hurt because it offers maximum protection for lashes by delivering proteins, vitamins, peptides as well as moisturizing and rejuvenating ingredients that replenish and strengthen. For some, you'll see results in two weeks with maximum results in eight weeks so I have a few more weeks to see if it'll make a difference. neulash can also be used on the eyebrows.
According to president and CEO of Skin Research Laboratories, Richard Carieri, the product has been proven to be ophthalmologist and dermatologist safe through extensive research.
Although the cost seems a bit pricey to me, at $150, it's more economical than a prescription drug and contains about a three-month supply. The average daily cost for neulash is $1.67 per day whereas a prescription would cost about $4 per day for just a one-month supply.
To learn more about it, check out Neulash.com or visit Saks Fifth Avenue to try it out for yourself.
Yes, I really do all of that. That's why when I get the opportunity to test or review a product I always jump at the chance. Here I'm going to update you on two of the products I've already told you about and reveal some results of a new product I've been trying: neuLash® active eyelash technology.
First, the updates:
It was on or about June 23rd that I told you about Revitalift® Deep-Set Wrinkle Repair from L'Oreal Paris®. I'm almost finished using my sample (I ran out of the SPF 15 Day Lotion), but I still have some Night Creme. The best part: I'm pleased with the results.I began using the product on April 13 and I think it has worked to its complete ability on my skin. I had fine lines that I wanted to minimize and increase my "youthful appearance." The Revitalift helps to repair deep-set wrinkles and you should notice results in about eight weeks.
More than likely I'll continue to use the Night Creme as a part of my skincare routine, but I prefer a day lotion that has more SPF protection.
The Relastin Eye Silk is reportedly the "first product proven to increase elasticity and decrease the signs of aging around the eye," and - like I mentioned in a previous post - a September 2006 study reported that the eye silk also decreases dark circles under the eyes after about four weeks.Given the amount of rest and sleep I normally get I think the product has done all it can do on my dark circles. I noticed a difference almost immediately. More than likely I'd have continued using the product anyway because it feels so great going on. It has a silky, smooth feeling during application along with a light, pleasant fragrance.
Now for the new review:
I was really excited when I read about neuLash® active eyelash technology, which is touted as a product that can extend the life of your lashes while allowing them to appear fuller and thicker versus a prescription drug. I have very fine, short lashes and I had to see this for myself.On July 1st, I began using neuLash®. It's in a tube that's similar to mascara and the wand (an eyeliner-like applicator) is a small brush. You apply it by sweeping the product along the base of your upper lashes. I was a little nervous when I first applied it because it felt wet and I thought it would run into my eyes, but it didn't. After the first application - it's applied nightly - I looked forward to the damp, cool feel of the neuLash. It's quite soothing.
When I look in the mirror it appears that my lashes are thicker and longer, but proof is in the photos so I'm going to compare them right now: When I post them it'll be the first time I check out the results (along with you).
The first three photos were taken on July 1st. (Thanks to a rough night of sleep you're getting a nice view of a couple of bags under my eyes!)
The next three were taken today. (BTW: Please ignore my eyebrows! I am always trying to grow them out so I can get them shaped nicely. It's a never-ending cycle!)
I must admit I don't see a difference, but it could just be the quality of the pictures and the fact that they aren't the same as the before ones. What do you think? Do you see a difference?You'll have to forgive the bad picture taking. It's a little difficult getting pictures of your own eyelashes.
I'm going to continue using neuLash until it is gone because I want to ensure that I'm giving it an adequate chance to do its magic. And it can't hurt because it offers maximum protection for lashes by delivering proteins, vitamins, peptides as well as moisturizing and rejuvenating ingredients that replenish and strengthen. For some, you'll see results in two weeks with maximum results in eight weeks so I have a few more weeks to see if it'll make a difference. neulash can also be used on the eyebrows.
According to president and CEO of Skin Research Laboratories, Richard Carieri, the product has been proven to be ophthalmologist and dermatologist safe through extensive research.
Although the cost seems a bit pricey to me, at $150, it's more economical than a prescription drug and contains about a three-month supply. The average daily cost for neulash is $1.67 per day whereas a prescription would cost about $4 per day for just a one-month supply.
To learn more about it, check out Neulash.com or visit Saks Fifth Avenue to try it out for yourself.
Diet, weight loss
Although I spend a lot of time thinking about my weight, counting calories and trying to lose weight, I have never used any type of weight loss supplement or weight loss plan. I've thought about it, but have never had the nerve - or the money - to pursue it.
One of the things I like to make for myself the most - when I'm not being lazy - is a smoothie. I add healthy ingredients like wheat germ, frozen fruit, fresh fruit, blackstrap molasses, flax seed, honey and occasionally other ingredients. I was thinking that if I were to try a diet product it would be weight loss shakes. That seems like something that would be a natural and healthy additional to my dietary intake.
One of the things I like to make for myself the most - when I'm not being lazy - is a smoothie. I add healthy ingredients like wheat germ, frozen fruit, fresh fruit, blackstrap molasses, flax seed, honey and occasionally other ingredients. I was thinking that if I were to try a diet product it would be weight loss shakes. That seems like something that would be a natural and healthy additional to my dietary intake.
Deep sigh of relief
My health and weight loss journal
Remember last week when I reported I gained almost five pounds in about four days? Well, I am happy to tell you that I've gotten back down. Yup, the pounds are off again (with about half to one to go) and I'm back to seriously counting my calories.
Actually I really can't say "seriously" because I have been eating a lot of sweets lately. It's like I started nibbling over the weekend and the taste just stuck with me. Everything sweet in the house is calling my name and I'll be glad when it's all gone. I don't normally buy sweet treats so having them here is like a severe temptation.
It could be just PMS, but I still need to be careful.
On the health front, nothing much has changed. I have an MRI coming up in the next couple of months. So, depending on the outcome of that, which was fueled by the results of another test, I'll have something to share with you then.
I hope you've been successful (happy, encouraged, motivated...) with your weight loss and taking good care of yourself.
Actually I really can't say "seriously" because I have been eating a lot of sweets lately. It's like I started nibbling over the weekend and the taste just stuck with me. Everything sweet in the house is calling my name and I'll be glad when it's all gone. I don't normally buy sweet treats so having them here is like a severe temptation.
It could be just PMS, but I still need to be careful.
On the health front, nothing much has changed. I have an MRI coming up in the next couple of months. So, depending on the outcome of that, which was fueled by the results of another test, I'll have something to share with you then.
I hope you've been successful (happy, encouraged, motivated...) with your weight loss and taking good care of yourself.
Monday, July 20, 2009
Let it shine
Although my oldest daughter and I had a list before we went shopping for things she would need for her room and living quarters in her college dormitory, there were a few things we forgot or didn't think about. One of the those things was lamps.
We remembered to get a desk lamp so that she would be able to see well while she studied, but we didn't think about other parts of the living area. For instance, there isn't a light next to her bed so she needs a table lamp or a lamp to connect to her headboard so she doesn't have to get out of bed if she's laying down reading. And, because she lives in a suite and has a living room and kitchen, it would be nice to have a floor lamp or a multi-necked lamp for more focused light.
One would think it's easy to shop for a lamp because you should be able to just pick the style and color you like and need. Well oftentimes it's necessary to look a little more in-depth at your purchase. There are a variety of features of lamps and if you don't shop around you may miss out on what fits your situation the best. Everything from the style of lamp to the type of bulb, like low voltage halogen lamps, is important. Just ShopWiki to find out everything you need to know.
We remembered to get a desk lamp so that she would be able to see well while she studied, but we didn't think about other parts of the living area. For instance, there isn't a light next to her bed so she needs a table lamp or a lamp to connect to her headboard so she doesn't have to get out of bed if she's laying down reading. And, because she lives in a suite and has a living room and kitchen, it would be nice to have a floor lamp or a multi-necked lamp for more focused light.
One would think it's easy to shop for a lamp because you should be able to just pick the style and color you like and need. Well oftentimes it's necessary to look a little more in-depth at your purchase. There are a variety of features of lamps and if you don't shop around you may miss out on what fits your situation the best. Everything from the style of lamp to the type of bulb, like low voltage halogen lamps, is important. Just ShopWiki to find out everything you need to know.
Where is the money?
Earlier today I read a post on my friend Lin's blog (Duck and Wheel with String) where she was talking about the difficult stage of our teenagers going off to college. Then this evening I was talking to a friend of mine about her daughter going off to college in less than a month and not having all of the financial aspects in order.
That's only three moms and we're all a little frustrated, worried and anxious about this new stage. I know some parents are nervous about their kids going away, some worry about whether their new college students will do well academically, but the majority are thinking about the money.
Although my daughter qualified for financial aid (Pell, Hope and possibly work study), there are still other expenses that may need to be covered. She took out a very small loan to cover the little "left over," but my hope is that she'll qualify, apply and receive some scholarships and grants.
Finding said scholarships can be tough. Beating the competition can be even tougher. But it has to be done. I figured I would bring the question to you - the intelligent, knowledgeable and helpful blog readers - to see if you have any good leads on legitimate scholarships.
Thanks for your help... I better go now and pursue a couple of leads.
That's only three moms and we're all a little frustrated, worried and anxious about this new stage. I know some parents are nervous about their kids going away, some worry about whether their new college students will do well academically, but the majority are thinking about the money.
Although my daughter qualified for financial aid (Pell, Hope and possibly work study), there are still other expenses that may need to be covered. She took out a very small loan to cover the little "left over," but my hope is that she'll qualify, apply and receive some scholarships and grants.
Finding said scholarships can be tough. Beating the competition can be even tougher. But it has to be done. I figured I would bring the question to you - the intelligent, knowledgeable and helpful blog readers - to see if you have any good leads on legitimate scholarships.
Thanks for your help... I better go now and pursue a couple of leads.
Compare credit cards
If you live in Australia and have a need for a credit card then you should do some comparison shopping before you apply. Credit Card City is a site that does the work for you.
My Momfinitions
I found out about this contest from TwitterMoms and decided to participate. The task? To write give Momfinitions and get cash. ParentsConnect published an article that included various Momfinitions. You know, things moms say that haven't quite made it into the dictionary. It's quite entertaining. So, let's see how I did:
StalkerCharge - The one child that is designated to stalk mom while she's in the kitchen preparing a meal. They're supposed to report back to everyone what she's cooking. "Okay, who's going to do the stalkercharge today?" It can be done slowly and sneakily or a quick ambush to which mom always replies, "Stop stalking me."
PasseyPoo - This is the act of saying a sibling, who can't defend themselves, passed gas. "Did someone pass gas," I usually ask before checking the toddler's training pants. "I didn't," comes a chorus of responses. "Anna did!" Of course, Anna just giggles.
GrannyGiggleMunch, MunchkinFace, Moomalicious or PootieWootie (poo tee, woo tee) - It's the combination of nicknames that you've given your child. For instance, I've called my oldest daughter Face, Munchkin, Granny and Giggles so I sometimes combine the names into something unique. I used to call my youngest Moomie (moo me) and I think she's the most beautifully delicious baby so now I can be heard saying, "Come here Moomalicious!"
StricterSnap - It's the dramatic response of an uptight adult to the natural rebellion, curiosity and statements of a child. "He just went strictersnap on her for repeating something she heard him say!" I have to deal with this with my children's father because he's a little uh... dramatic.
InstaSib - This is a sibling who instigates another sibling whether it's to do something mommy said not to do or provoke a sibling to get mad. My 4-year-old daughter is normally the instasib.
What do you think about mine? If you have some momfinitions that you use, I'd love to see them.
StalkerCharge - The one child that is designated to stalk mom while she's in the kitchen preparing a meal. They're supposed to report back to everyone what she's cooking. "Okay, who's going to do the stalkercharge today?" It can be done slowly and sneakily or a quick ambush to which mom always replies, "Stop stalking me."
PasseyPoo - This is the act of saying a sibling, who can't defend themselves, passed gas. "Did someone pass gas," I usually ask before checking the toddler's training pants. "I didn't," comes a chorus of responses. "Anna did!" Of course, Anna just giggles.
GrannyGiggleMunch, MunchkinFace, Moomalicious or PootieWootie (poo tee, woo tee) - It's the combination of nicknames that you've given your child. For instance, I've called my oldest daughter Face, Munchkin, Granny and Giggles so I sometimes combine the names into something unique. I used to call my youngest Moomie (moo me) and I think she's the most beautifully delicious baby so now I can be heard saying, "Come here Moomalicious!"
StricterSnap - It's the dramatic response of an uptight adult to the natural rebellion, curiosity and statements of a child. "He just went strictersnap on her for repeating something she heard him say!" I have to deal with this with my children's father because he's a little uh... dramatic.
InstaSib - This is a sibling who instigates another sibling whether it's to do something mommy said not to do or provoke a sibling to get mad. My 4-year-old daughter is normally the instasib.
What do you think about mine? If you have some momfinitions that you use, I'd love to see them.
Monday's Muse: Simple creativity
I was so glad when I clicked over to Maternal Spark, the host of the weekly Monday's Muse, and read her post about keeping things simple today... well, this week. That seems to be right up my alley.
I've been really dragging for a few days now and although I have been sitting at my computer for more than an hour I haven't gotten anything of importance accomplished. I've been trying to figure out how I can get the necessary things done, continue to move slowly and let my body heal while still feeling like I'm being productive.
Hmmm...
SIDEBAR RE: HEALING - My sinuses have really been weighing me down and contributing to the fatigue I already feel 'cause of the fibromyalgia. And there is another little medical issue that's amiss causing me discomfort.
My goal for the week is to not pile too much on my daily to do list. There hasn't been a message from my muse yet, but I'm thinking that maybe it's a good time to give the muse a break. I mean, who said that because I'm a writer I have to be filled with creativity every single day? That's just pressure we (creative types) put on ourselves.
So, in the spirit of Monday's Muse camaraderie, I'm keeping it simple over here too. :)
I've been really dragging for a few days now and although I have been sitting at my computer for more than an hour I haven't gotten anything of importance accomplished. I've been trying to figure out how I can get the necessary things done, continue to move slowly and let my body heal while still feeling like I'm being productive.
Hmmm...
SIDEBAR RE: HEALING - My sinuses have really been weighing me down and contributing to the fatigue I already feel 'cause of the fibromyalgia. And there is another little medical issue that's amiss causing me discomfort.
My goal for the week is to not pile too much on my daily to do list. There hasn't been a message from my muse yet, but I'm thinking that maybe it's a good time to give the muse a break. I mean, who said that because I'm a writer I have to be filled with creativity every single day? That's just pressure we (creative types) put on ourselves.
So, in the spirit of Monday's Muse camaraderie, I'm keeping it simple over here too. :)
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Little vacation cottage
Sometimes when I sit outside on my deck, close my eyes and enjoy the breeze on my skin I can picture waking up on vacation in a little cottage near the ocean. It has windows wrapped around the entire structure with sheer curtains dancing in the breeze. The king-sized, canopy white wicker bed is surrounded by mosquito netting and covered in 500-count sheets in ocean blue.
There's white wicker furniture that's unobtrusive and comfy enough to relax on. Each piece is covered in plush cushions that match the bedding. It's a relaxing and quiet environment with soothing shades of green and peach in the artwork. When I walk out the front door onto the screened in porch, I enjoy the solid rustic furniture that blends nicely with the surrounding area.
I could probably fantasize all day about a little vacation cottage. Can you picture your perfect cottage getaway?
There's white wicker furniture that's unobtrusive and comfy enough to relax on. Each piece is covered in plush cushions that match the bedding. It's a relaxing and quiet environment with soothing shades of green and peach in the artwork. When I walk out the front door onto the screened in porch, I enjoy the solid rustic furniture that blends nicely with the surrounding area.
I could probably fantasize all day about a little vacation cottage. Can you picture your perfect cottage getaway?
Simple Sunday satisfactions
There's always a day or two (or three!) out of every month that I feel terribly lazy. I have no plans for my day - regardless of whether the children are at home - and I shuffle around. As usual I'll start the day with a breakfast of fruit, take my medication then have something hot to drink and eat.
There's always a magazine or book nearby to read while I sip. If the children are home they talk loudly, play a lot and periodically check on me to see what I'm doing.
Today with my newly-home college student in attendance, I sat at the table enjoying some magazine reading. And, I hate to admit it, I drank one cup of coffee, about three cups of tea (At least the tea was decaf.) and several bottles of water.
Sleepiness stayed with me today though and I didn't do my usual mini chores. You know the ones: You're pretty much finished with chores, but there are a few things to do to get ready for the week. Well, ready or not here the week comes without everything complete.
I remembered the children wanted to ride their bikes and I lovingly asked the teen to help me get them out of the storage area, which I recently destroyed by literally stuffing junk into it. They went outside and I realized Amareah's seat was too low so I pulled out the toolbox and raised her seat as far as it would go. I looked up a few minutes later and it was all the way back down. Tightening it would have been good.
I got a good chuckle outta that.
Then I decided they should start learning to ride without training wheels. I removed one training wheel - first on Amareah's bike - and she began trying enthusiastically. She quickly became disappointed and asked for her wheel back. Being the nice, non-coddling mother that I am; I refused.
Andre tried his bike without the training wheel and excitedly kept trying. He even asked for the other one off since he was progressing so well. Ten minutes later he asked for both back. I compromised with him and put one back on so he could better learn to balance.
After a little while he tired of falling to the side and said, "I don't want to ride any longer. I want to catch bugs. Can I?"
Who am I to deprive a child of his favorite activity? I went inside. Oh... and I'm sure you're wondering about Amareah and Anna: Upon arriving outside Anna "rode" her bike for about eight minutes and Amareah soon went in with Amber, the teenager, to get her toenails painted. Priorities, you know?
The rest of the day consisted of napping (me included), snacks, meals, playing and a frustrated, grumpy mom who was still sleepy after a 90-minute nap. The teenager went out with the boyfriend and the kids are in the bathtub. I'm hoping the splashing, yelling at each other and playing will tire them out enough so they'll be absolutely quiet come bedtime.
Overall, it was a pretty satisfying Sunday. Really.
There's always a magazine or book nearby to read while I sip. If the children are home they talk loudly, play a lot and periodically check on me to see what I'm doing.
Today with my newly-home college student in attendance, I sat at the table enjoying some magazine reading. And, I hate to admit it, I drank one cup of coffee, about three cups of tea (At least the tea was decaf.) and several bottles of water.
Sleepiness stayed with me today though and I didn't do my usual mini chores. You know the ones: You're pretty much finished with chores, but there are a few things to do to get ready for the week. Well, ready or not here the week comes without everything complete.
I remembered the children wanted to ride their bikes and I lovingly asked the teen to help me get them out of the storage area, which I recently destroyed by literally stuffing junk into it. They went outside and I realized Amareah's seat was too low so I pulled out the toolbox and raised her seat as far as it would go. I looked up a few minutes later and it was all the way back down. Tightening it would have been good.
I got a good chuckle outta that.
Then I decided they should start learning to ride without training wheels. I removed one training wheel - first on Amareah's bike - and she began trying enthusiastically. She quickly became disappointed and asked for her wheel back. Being the nice, non-coddling mother that I am; I refused.
Andre tried his bike without the training wheel and excitedly kept trying. He even asked for the other one off since he was progressing so well. Ten minutes later he asked for both back. I compromised with him and put one back on so he could better learn to balance.
After a little while he tired of falling to the side and said, "I don't want to ride any longer. I want to catch bugs. Can I?"
Who am I to deprive a child of his favorite activity? I went inside. Oh... and I'm sure you're wondering about Amareah and Anna: Upon arriving outside Anna "rode" her bike for about eight minutes and Amareah soon went in with Amber, the teenager, to get her toenails painted. Priorities, you know?
The rest of the day consisted of napping (me included), snacks, meals, playing and a frustrated, grumpy mom who was still sleepy after a 90-minute nap. The teenager went out with the boyfriend and the kids are in the bathtub. I'm hoping the splashing, yelling at each other and playing will tire them out enough so they'll be absolutely quiet come bedtime.
Overall, it was a pretty satisfying Sunday. Really.
Friday, July 17, 2009
Little worker, talker bee
Little Miss Amareah wanted to stay home with me today and her brother wanted to go to Miss Kellie's. No problem for me since I had to take the toddler anyway. When Amareah and I finally got home we had a snack, I made myself some coffee so she had to have tea, I came into the office to get some work done and she sat down to practice letter writing. Then she colored and practiced writing her name. (Seems as if the little pre-schooler has forgotten had to spell her name.)She's an inquisitive little girl who is very intelligent and aware of the world around her. I enjoy spending time with her, but boy can she talk!
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Expenses of raising children
Michelle* is a woman who separated from her husband a few years ago and who is now going through a divorce. The couple had three children together and the husband recently decided to stop giving Michelle money to help take care of the children. His reasoning includes the fact that they had "agreed" to him giving her $700 per month and when they weren't able to come to an alternative agreement during their mediation that meant he didn't have to pay anything. He also stated that if he was forced to pay what the lawyers calculated $1,000 to $1,400 per month then he needs to "save" money to meet the court order.
While the couple was together, Michelle was a stay-at-home mom who occasionally worked at her own business. Their children are young and close in age, and Michelle spent most of their short marriage pregnant. Her husband made the bulk of the income and every time she would say she should go back to work, he would respond, 'You don't want to do that.'
Michelle says that her husband told her he is not giving her $1,200 per month to take care of her. She was shocked at his statement and disbelieving of the fact that he seems to have no idea how much it takes to take care for a child each month - let alone three children.
This is where I came in and added my two cents. Thanks to some research information I'd received.
Not too long after discovering this there was a press release in my email in box from IBISWorld.com, a company that publishes industry and company research reports and information, revealing that in today's economy parenting is even costlier. According to the Los Angeles-based company the impact of our economic condition further exacerbates financial commitment and the average cost of raising a child from birth to the age of 18 is $227,862. That's $12,658 per year or about $1,054.
© IBISWorld USA
According to my calculations Michelle needs about $3,164 each month just to care for those three children. If her soon-to-be ex-husband paid half that would be $1,582 each month. He's balking because she is asking (against her lawyer's recommendations) for a minimum of $1,000.
Kind of reminds me of that snake in my yard. Oops, sorry, I digress.
Photo credit: Petula Wright
It really angers and discourages me when I hear stories like this. I'll never understand how someone can be so spiteful and hateful not to care enough about a person they once loved to do the right thing. I've heard that he's giving the daycare provider money for field trips and, of course, providing for the children when they're with him every other weekend. But to hold money hostage, to gain and force control, is just plain wrong.
© IBISWorld USA
Do you know of similar situations? Or have you noticed that the condition of the economy is making it harder to provide for your children? Take a minute and weigh in.
*Name has been changed to protect the innocent and not so innocent.
While the couple was together, Michelle was a stay-at-home mom who occasionally worked at her own business. Their children are young and close in age, and Michelle spent most of their short marriage pregnant. Her husband made the bulk of the income and every time she would say she should go back to work, he would respond, 'You don't want to do that.'Michelle says that her husband told her he is not giving her $1,200 per month to take care of her. She was shocked at his statement and disbelieving of the fact that he seems to have no idea how much it takes to take care for a child each month - let alone three children.
This is where I came in and added my two cents. Thanks to some research information I'd received.
Not too long after discovering this there was a press release in my email in box from IBISWorld.com, a company that publishes industry and company research reports and information, revealing that in today's economy parenting is even costlier. According to the Los Angeles-based company the impact of our economic condition further exacerbates financial commitment and the average cost of raising a child from birth to the age of 18 is $227,862. That's $12,658 per year or about $1,054.
© IBISWorld USAAccording to my calculations Michelle needs about $3,164 each month just to care for those three children. If her soon-to-be ex-husband paid half that would be $1,582 each month. He's balking because she is asking (against her lawyer's recommendations) for a minimum of $1,000.
Kind of reminds me of that snake in my yard. Oops, sorry, I digress.
Photo credit: Petula WrightIt really angers and discourages me when I hear stories like this. I'll never understand how someone can be so spiteful and hateful not to care enough about a person they once loved to do the right thing. I've heard that he's giving the daycare provider money for field trips and, of course, providing for the children when they're with him every other weekend. But to hold money hostage, to gain and force control, is just plain wrong.
© IBISWorld USADo you know of similar situations? Or have you noticed that the condition of the economy is making it harder to provide for your children? Take a minute and weigh in.
*Name has been changed to protect the innocent and not so innocent.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Wordless Wednesday: What do YOU think it is?
Amareah, Andre & Anna investigating something that I'm sure they shouldn't be.
For more Wordless Wednesday around the blogosphere check out 5 Mintues for Mom. And I'd really appreciate it if you would take a look at my other Wordless Wednesday photos.
For more Wordless Wednesday around the blogosphere check out 5 Mintues for Mom. And I'd really appreciate it if you would take a look at my other Wordless Wednesday photos.
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Sshhhhh, it's a secret!
I have been keeping something from you. Not really, but I haven't mentioned it lately. I'm always on the prow for some type of opportunity, I've gotten a couple of web content assignments, more paid posts (I think you've noticed that) and I apply for a gig every now and again. Gotta pay the bills, ya know?
I like that word gig. An editor I worked for in 1995 was stuck in the '70s and he used to say that all the time. He also called me "Babe" on a regular basis, wore an afro and a pimp-daddy hat.
Oh, I digress. Back to the secret.
Not too long ago I applied for a part-time job at one of the local libraries. Today I had an interview and found out they had 100s of applicants, but not everyone was called for an interview. (I think my head swelled at that moment.)
The hours are good, I could still blog and do web content (it would be a little tight/rough), it's flexible and not far from home. It even seems like a full circle kind of thing 'cause my first job was at a library. Honestly, I don't know if that's good or bad. Is it moving forward or backward? Well, maybe it's a symbol of a new beginning since it goes back to where I started. Hmmm? Worth considering I guess.
An-t-who, that's the secret. Now, don't tell anyone because I don't want to jinx it. :)
I like that word gig. An editor I worked for in 1995 was stuck in the '70s and he used to say that all the time. He also called me "Babe" on a regular basis, wore an afro and a pimp-daddy hat.
Oh, I digress. Back to the secret.
Not too long ago I applied for a part-time job at one of the local libraries. Today I had an interview and found out they had 100s of applicants, but not everyone was called for an interview. (I think my head swelled at that moment.)
The hours are good, I could still blog and do web content (it would be a little tight/rough), it's flexible and not far from home. It even seems like a full circle kind of thing 'cause my first job was at a library. Honestly, I don't know if that's good or bad. Is it moving forward or backward? Well, maybe it's a symbol of a new beginning since it goes back to where I started. Hmmm? Worth considering I guess.An-t-who, that's the secret. Now, don't tell anyone because I don't want to jinx it. :)
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