Last week I participated in 5 Minutes for Mom's Ultimate Blog Party. Not only did I enter a lot of contests and meet many awesome women, but I also offered two prizes: "Money Games: 85 Fun Ways to Save Money and Attract Abundance" by Randy Petrick and the Baby Signs Complete Potty Training starter kit. Thanks to Randy and Baby Signs for offering these wonderful products to my fabulous readers.
Now for the news you wanted to read: Amanda Henson of MomofFaith.com won Money Games.
Congratulations, Amanda, your book will be in the mail to you very soon.
Take a moment to read my review of Money Games and stay tuned for my potty training update and review of the potty training kit.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
My Life. In Pictures. Day 2
I came across a fabulous blog, Everything Except The Grill, and discovered a cool photography challange: "My Life. In Pictures." I'm a little late, (it began yesterday), but the instructions say participants can do it everyday, one day or anything in between.
Today's challenge is to photograph "something on your table." My table either has a bunch of stuff on it or nothing at all except the yellow bowl and a vase. Today is one of the days that it's filled with children's projects, mail, magazines, fruit, nuts, etc. I like this photo because it's colorful and makes me forget that outside it's a rainy, dark day.
Find out more about the challenge at href="http://everythingexceptthegrill.blogspot.com/2009/03/my-life-in-pictures-new-photo-challenge.html">Everything Except The Grilland even if you don't participate you can take a look at all the great photographs.
Today's challenge is to photograph "something on your table." My table either has a bunch of stuff on it or nothing at all except the yellow bowl and a vase. Today is one of the days that it's filled with children's projects, mail, magazines, fruit, nuts, etc. I like this photo because it's colorful and makes me forget that outside it's a rainy, dark day.
Find out more about the challenge at href="http://everythingexceptthegrill.blogspot.com/2009/03/my-life-in-pictures-new-photo-challenge.html">Everything Except The Grilland even if you don't participate you can take a look at all the great photographs.
If I had the words...
When thoughts are brewing in my head and life's madness swirls around me I find myself at a loss for words to describe what I am thinking and feeling. It's as if I am empty and full at the same time.
Full of thoughts, feelings and emotions, but empty of a way to express them. Release them.
These thoughts are weighing me down. They're draining my spirit, and I feel like I can't stop it from happening.
When I manage to get above the heaviness there are people who are waiting in the darkness - right before the light - to cause me to sink. I can't ignore them because they don't respect the words I manage to speak.
Their presence makes everything darker. Their logic makes everything blurry. Their existence makes everything just sad.
If I had the words, if I could get it out, if they'd pay attention, understand, know, love and act in love, if they'd hear, listen and take the time I. would. say. STOP. Just make it all stop.
Full of thoughts, feelings and emotions, but empty of a way to express them. Release them.
These thoughts are weighing me down. They're draining my spirit, and I feel like I can't stop it from happening.
When I manage to get above the heaviness there are people who are waiting in the darkness - right before the light - to cause me to sink. I can't ignore them because they don't respect the words I manage to speak.
Their presence makes everything darker. Their logic makes everything blurry. Their existence makes everything just sad.
If I had the words, if I could get it out, if they'd pay attention, understand, know, love and act in love, if they'd hear, listen and take the time I. would. say. STOP. Just make it all stop.
Monday, March 30, 2009
Monday's Muse: A shell of a memory
I've never been able to find a suitable location in my home for the conch shell I got during a trip to Turks & Caicos more than seven years ago. About a week ago I moved it from a spot in my office where it had sat for quite a number of years and put it on the bookshelf where I keep the O Magazines*, which I can't bear to throw away.
Truth be told, the last time I was moving things around in the office my youngest scratched her leg on it. I thought briefly about throwing it away because the vision I have for my beach-colored, tranquil, spa-like master bathroom seems too far away and dreamlike to save it. That dream room is unrealistic in this house because we have one bathroom that I share with four children. But each time I think of disposing of the shell; I just can't bring myself to do it.
That shell once held a life - a large saltwater snail to be exact. It's also a symbol of a carefree and happy time for me: I was doing travel writing and the trip to Turks & Caicos was the first my oldest daughter, who was about 10 at the time, was able to attend with me. She was quite impressed with our travel and accommodations, but most importantly it was a moment we were able to share together.
At the time I envisioned being able to share more trips like that with her. I had a lot of dreams that are starting to fade including returning to Turks & Caicos. Those fading dreams made me think that the shell no longer fits its purpose.
Now I keep glancing at it... I guess I can still see possibilities in it. And if I pay close attention I can still hear my dreams coming from it. More than seven years ago I had high hopes for the life path I was on and I thought (just like conch that lived within) the dreams died away.
The reality is I can't let those dreams die. I may not have been able to bring a live conch home, but I have the most beautiful part - the shell. My memories are also the beautiful part and the dreams may be fading, but I can let that shell spark new dreams.
What sparks your dreams today?
For more of mine check out all of my other Monday's Muse posts.
*For me, each O Magazine is a message of self, creativity and womanhood. It's the evidence of a woman's dream that I can't stand to part with.
Friday, March 27, 2009
Toe-tapping, heart-touching tunes
I've been tapping my foot for about the last 20 minutes and, to be honest, I'm quite surprised. This is the fourth time I've listened to the Ballas Hough Band's CD, BHB, which is their debut album released by Hollywood Records. During my first listen the sound interrupted my work for about 10 minutes before it blended into the background and easily fueled my work. I'm not normally a fan of pop/rock, but this CD has me tapping my foot and re-evaluating my music choices.
The Ballas Hough Band CD, which was released March 10th, has a subtle yet soulful sound with words that touch your heart and your mind. Of the 11 songs, I think my favorites are "Do You Love Me," "Longing For" and "Fall." According to what I've read about the song "Longing For" it has "intricate guitar-work, wistful harmonies, tug-at-your-heartstrings melodies and lyrics that read like the love letter every girl dreams of." Now that's what I call a good song.
Members of the band are "Dancing with the Stars" favorites Mark Ballas and Derek Hough on vocals and guitar, Emily Grace on keyboards and vocals, bassist Sam Marder and drummer Harry Sullivan. These are five artists you'll definitely want to take a listen to.
You can take me word for how great it is or you can buy a copy for yourself. Once you do, be sure to come back here and let me know what you think.
review
The Ballas Hough Band CD, which was released March 10th, has a subtle yet soulful sound with words that touch your heart and your mind. Of the 11 songs, I think my favorites are "Do You Love Me," "Longing For" and "Fall." According to what I've read about the song "Longing For" it has "intricate guitar-work, wistful harmonies, tug-at-your-heartstrings melodies and lyrics that read like the love letter every girl dreams of." Now that's what I call a good song.
Members of the band are "Dancing with the Stars" favorites Mark Ballas and Derek Hough on vocals and guitar, Emily Grace on keyboards and vocals, bassist Sam Marder and drummer Harry Sullivan. These are five artists you'll definitely want to take a listen to.
You can take me word for how great it is or you can buy a copy for yourself. Once you do, be sure to come back here and let me know what you think.
review
Blessings Abound's bracelet blessing/giveaway
Blessings Abound is giving away a Twisted Silver Aurora Bracelet for Giveaway Pool Friday. If you haven't seen Twisted Silver's jewelry you really should check them out at Twisted-Silver.com. They have unique and beautiful pieces. I've viewed their collection a couple of times and there are quite a few things that I wouldn't mind having.
Head on over to Blessings Abound to see how you can enter this fabulous giveaway.Let me think...
As far as I can tell there isn't one creative thought in my head today. I'll just blame it on the rainy day drowsiness that is lurking around. It's a sneaky little monster that keeps creeping up when I least expect it.
I even wandered around the house looking for something that would spark an idea and that I thought would be of interest to you. Maybe you wouldn't mind seeing my dirty coffee pot...
Or the two middle children's responsibility chart that I haven't taken the ... uh, responsibility for keeping up with...
Then there's the laundry room that is literally overflowing with clothes - both clean and dirty. Almost every time I walk into this room I am a little overwhelmed so I just walk back out. I must admit that it's not the best approach to getting the laundry completed...
I straightened up my magazines. The pile in the back are the ones I haven't started looking at yet, the pile in the front are those I've already began reading and I also haven't read the two Jet magazines. (There are also two or three magazines, including another Jet, in my bedroom.)
There are some unreal (I don't like to call them fake. LOL) flowers in a vase on my desk. The vase has some little secrets in it, but I didn't think you'd want to hear about that either...
I thought about telling you about all of the clothes on my teenage daughter's bed, but then that wouldn't be fair given the amount of dirty clothes on my bed that I am not telling you about.
Then I thought about asking you if you had any ideas (that don't require buying anything) to fix the window covering in the children's room. I had the blinds secured so that they covered the top half of the window, but the children pulled them down. There was fabric on the bottom half - yellow on the inside and black on the outside - and the kids started pulling that out as well. They also yanked down a vine of sunflowers that surrounded the window. It's hard to explain, but it looked rather nice.
And while I am revealing what the children have been up to, I might as well tell you about this. I took these drawers, where the children keep some of their toys, and put them in the hallway because the baby was using them as steps while she was in her crib. Well, one day they decided to open all of the drawers at once and it fell over, which somehow caused one of the wheels to break. Now, the wheel-less drawer thingy is permanently stranded in the hallway.
Then I was looking through my camera and found pictures of my teenager who wiggled down the hallway on her belly one night because the baby wasn't asleep and was looking into the hallway. Every time she saw someone pass by the door she would whine and cry. It took Amber about 10-15 minutes to get to her room; it was quite funny.
I still feel like I'm missing that spark of inspiration, but as I review this post and see it's about everyday happenings I realize that this is representative of a lot of what goes on in this woman's world. It may not be that creative and I'm still quite drowsy, but I entertained you a little, right?
I hope you have a creative, un-drowsy and inspiring weekend. :)
I even wandered around the house looking for something that would spark an idea and that I thought would be of interest to you. Maybe you wouldn't mind seeing my dirty coffee pot...
Or the two middle children's responsibility chart that I haven't taken the ... uh, responsibility for keeping up with...
Then there's the laundry room that is literally overflowing with clothes - both clean and dirty. Almost every time I walk into this room I am a little overwhelmed so I just walk back out. I must admit that it's not the best approach to getting the laundry completed...
I straightened up my magazines. The pile in the back are the ones I haven't started looking at yet, the pile in the front are those I've already began reading and I also haven't read the two Jet magazines. (There are also two or three magazines, including another Jet, in my bedroom.)
There are some unreal (I don't like to call them fake. LOL) flowers in a vase on my desk. The vase has some little secrets in it, but I didn't think you'd want to hear about that either...
I thought about telling you about all of the clothes on my teenage daughter's bed, but then that wouldn't be fair given the amount of dirty clothes on my bed that I am not telling you about.
Then I thought about asking you if you had any ideas (that don't require buying anything) to fix the window covering in the children's room. I had the blinds secured so that they covered the top half of the window, but the children pulled them down. There was fabric on the bottom half - yellow on the inside and black on the outside - and the kids started pulling that out as well. They also yanked down a vine of sunflowers that surrounded the window. It's hard to explain, but it looked rather nice.
And while I am revealing what the children have been up to, I might as well tell you about this. I took these drawers, where the children keep some of their toys, and put them in the hallway because the baby was using them as steps while she was in her crib. Well, one day they decided to open all of the drawers at once and it fell over, which somehow caused one of the wheels to break. Now, the wheel-less drawer thingy is permanently stranded in the hallway.
Then I was looking through my camera and found pictures of my teenager who wiggled down the hallway on her belly one night because the baby wasn't asleep and was looking into the hallway. Every time she saw someone pass by the door she would whine and cry. It took Amber about 10-15 minutes to get to her room; it was quite funny.
I still feel like I'm missing that spark of inspiration, but as I review this post and see it's about everyday happenings I realize that this is representative of a lot of what goes on in this woman's world. It may not be that creative and I'm still quite drowsy, but I entertained you a little, right?
I hope you have a creative, un-drowsy and inspiring weekend. :)
Thursday, March 26, 2009
For the love of sales
This is one of those deals you don't want to miss: From now until April 18th Sears is offering 75-80 percent off original prices on all Fall and Winter apparel. The best time to buy items for the colder seasons is now while they are on sale, and that is especially important given the increased necessity to spend wisely.
Besides the cute little Southpole Juniors Long Sleeved Sweater that I spotted there are tons of clothing for the entire family at Sears. I thought the sweater would be perfect for my oldest daughter when she goes to college next year. It was originally at $42 and is now $9.99. Now, that's the kind of deal I like.
If you need clothes for work, school clothes for your kids, weekend or casual wear, a sale like this is the ideal time to find everything you need. Do not waste anymore time thinking about it, pop by Sears.com or head on out to your favorite Sears store right now to take advantage of these awesome deals. Who knows, you may see me there. Happy money-saving shopping and, when you’re finished come back here and tell me what you purchased.
Besides finding sales like this one at Sears, what advice do you have for others on saving money?
Besides the cute little Southpole Juniors Long Sleeved Sweater that I spotted there are tons of clothing for the entire family at Sears. I thought the sweater would be perfect for my oldest daughter when she goes to college next year. It was originally at $42 and is now $9.99. Now, that's the kind of deal I like.
If you need clothes for work, school clothes for your kids, weekend or casual wear, a sale like this is the ideal time to find everything you need. Do not waste anymore time thinking about it, pop by Sears.com or head on out to your favorite Sears store right now to take advantage of these awesome deals. Who knows, you may see me there. Happy money-saving shopping and, when you’re finished come back here and tell me what you purchased.
Besides finding sales like this one at Sears, what advice do you have for others on saving money?
Relunctant rise, sneaky sun
Getting out of the bed this morning took every single piece of effort and strength that I had. I moaned and groaned like a child being forced to take a nasty-tasting medicine. I could hear the rain drip dropping on the roof and feel the damp chill in the air.
Nevertheless I still had to roll out of bed. Despite my best intentions to get up at 5:30, it was 6 o'clock. Shuffling into the bathroom to take care of my business and splash cold water on my face did little to improve my morning mood. However, once I started popping green grapes (my favorite!) into my mouth, fixing the children's breakfast and brewing coffee, I at least felt a little human.
Being a little human is exactly what is needed when one has to spend time with a bunch of little people. Remember two weeks ago when I went on a field trip with my 5-year-old son's class to the library? Well, today was the field trip with my 4-year-old daughter's class to the same library.
I dropped off the baby first and rushed to get the two middle children to school. Since we were a little late I had to take my daughter to the restroom because she missed the time that they go as a class. When she was finished she said, "You're not leaving, are you?"
The brightness in my heart to know that she enjoys having me around during the day made it seem like the sun was brilliantly shining. Especially since I had just spent most of the day at her school on Tuesday during Male Involvement Day.
After helping to clean up breakfast stuff, singing & dancing, doing the morning work and another trip to the restroom, we were finally ready to board the buses for the field trip. (The adventures of boarding the bus is an entirely separate story!)
We arrived for story time a little late, but the children were still able to hear about a story about a kite. Yea, that's all that I know because I had to keep an eye on the children, as one of the chaperons, and I kept losing track in the story. After story time we gathered at a table to help the children make their own kites. (Seems to be the theme of the week, huh?)
While I did help some of the other children with their little projects, I spent most of my time talking to and working with Amareah. And I couldn't resist decorating my own kite. My little girl and I had fun talking about the colors we would use and where we wanted the bows and glitter.
Notice how my kite (on the left) is sporting red glitter lipstick... and Amareah's kite has some lovely mascara-ed eyelashes. She had so much fun decorating the kites that she wants to add more glitter details to her kite at home.
On the return trip, Amareah said she didn't want to go back to school because she wanted to come home with me. When I said she couldn't do that, she said she wanted me to stay at the school with her. Not only did my heart shine brightly this time, but I could hear a little song coming through the clouds.
Aren't we cute? We enjoyed sitting next to each other on the bus back to the school. And, you'll be proud to know, this sometimes impatient mommy didn't even flinch at Amareah's whining about staying with me for the rest of the day.
It's nice to realize that a cloudy, dreary day can still be filled with sunshine and singing birds. Did you see the sunshine today?
Nevertheless I still had to roll out of bed. Despite my best intentions to get up at 5:30, it was 6 o'clock. Shuffling into the bathroom to take care of my business and splash cold water on my face did little to improve my morning mood. However, once I started popping green grapes (my favorite!) into my mouth, fixing the children's breakfast and brewing coffee, I at least felt a little human.
Being a little human is exactly what is needed when one has to spend time with a bunch of little people. Remember two weeks ago when I went on a field trip with my 5-year-old son's class to the library? Well, today was the field trip with my 4-year-old daughter's class to the same library.
I dropped off the baby first and rushed to get the two middle children to school. Since we were a little late I had to take my daughter to the restroom because she missed the time that they go as a class. When she was finished she said, "You're not leaving, are you?"The brightness in my heart to know that she enjoys having me around during the day made it seem like the sun was brilliantly shining. Especially since I had just spent most of the day at her school on Tuesday during Male Involvement Day.
After helping to clean up breakfast stuff, singing & dancing, doing the morning work and another trip to the restroom, we were finally ready to board the buses for the field trip. (The adventures of boarding the bus is an entirely separate story!)We arrived for story time a little late, but the children were still able to hear about a story about a kite. Yea, that's all that I know because I had to keep an eye on the children, as one of the chaperons, and I kept losing track in the story. After story time we gathered at a table to help the children make their own kites. (Seems to be the theme of the week, huh?)
While I did help some of the other children with their little projects, I spent most of my time talking to and working with Amareah. And I couldn't resist decorating my own kite. My little girl and I had fun talking about the colors we would use and where we wanted the bows and glitter.
Notice how my kite (on the left) is sporting red glitter lipstick... and Amareah's kite has some lovely mascara-ed eyelashes. She had so much fun decorating the kites that she wants to add more glitter details to her kite at home.
On the return trip, Amareah said she didn't want to go back to school because she wanted to come home with me. When I said she couldn't do that, she said she wanted me to stay at the school with her. Not only did my heart shine brightly this time, but I could hear a little song coming through the clouds.
Aren't we cute? We enjoyed sitting next to each other on the bus back to the school. And, you'll be proud to know, this sometimes impatient mommy didn't even flinch at Amareah's whining about staying with me for the rest of the day.It's nice to realize that a cloudy, dreary day can still be filled with sunshine and singing birds. Did you see the sunshine today?
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Perfect house plans
I have been careful about my daydreams lately. Given the economy and my personal circumstances, I don't want to spend time visualizing things that may be unrealistic. However, we all know, a good dose of dreaming can do a soul some good.
Today I decided that a good way to dream would be to take a look at a couple of house plans. I am always thinking about what type of home I want to provide for my children and the necessary amenities that the five of us will need. And as my oldest daughter grows up to begin her own life, I think about the type of home I would want her to come home to visit and spend some downtime.
I went to www.HousePlansandMore.com to get an idea of what a search would come up with if I put in my preferences. Imagine my surprise when the parameters I entered - five bedrooms, 3.5 bathrooms and a minimum and maximum square footage - turned up one of the types of house I've pictured in my head in the past.
The house, which I believe is one of the country house plans, is beautiful. It has a front porch that spans the entire front of the house and a covered porch in the back, and those are two features I really love. There are nine foot ceilings on the first floor and the kitchen is large with an over-sized island.
The site also includes easy-to-follow information on how to alter your chosen house plans. I may go back later and change my parameters to find the "perfect" house to build. Although I was just doing a little dreaming, I did get to test out this site and found that you can search for just about any type of house plans you want (like a ranch house plan), learn how much it would cost to build that particular house in your area and save your plans for future reference.
Today I decided that a good way to dream would be to take a look at a couple of house plans. I am always thinking about what type of home I want to provide for my children and the necessary amenities that the five of us will need. And as my oldest daughter grows up to begin her own life, I think about the type of home I would want her to come home to visit and spend some downtime.
I went to www.HousePlansandMore.com to get an idea of what a search would come up with if I put in my preferences. Imagine my surprise when the parameters I entered - five bedrooms, 3.5 bathrooms and a minimum and maximum square footage - turned up one of the types of house I've pictured in my head in the past.
The house, which I believe is one of the country house plans, is beautiful. It has a front porch that spans the entire front of the house and a covered porch in the back, and those are two features I really love. There are nine foot ceilings on the first floor and the kitchen is large with an over-sized island.
The site also includes easy-to-follow information on how to alter your chosen house plans. I may go back later and change my parameters to find the "perfect" house to build. Although I was just doing a little dreaming, I did get to test out this site and found that you can search for just about any type of house plans you want (like a ranch house plan), learn how much it would cost to build that particular house in your area and save your plans for future reference.
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Parties, webcasts & more ... oh my!
Oh my!
It seems like I've already been swamped this week and it's only Tuesday. I guess it just feels that way since I started off the week without Internet thanks to some Internet Explorer drama.
My three younger children came home after a weekend with their dad so they were extra talkative and extra disobedient. My teenager had Calculus tutoring early yesterday evening so it's a little difficult to keep the children occupied and quiet during that time. And today was Male Involvement Day at the younger children's school and we flew kites. Yes, I was at Male Involvement Day because not only is it a day to encourage men in the children's lives to participate in their education, but I am the Parents Committee chairperson and I've been trying to be more active.
This evening is another tutoring session for the teen and I've been clicking away trying to catch up on everything. I've even had time for partying...
Join the party
The Ultimate Blog Party is still going on over at 5 Minutes for Mom. Have you gotten in on the action yet? If not then you're missing tons of great giveaways and the chance to meet a lot of new friends. Oh, if I haven't mentioned it before, you don't have to be a blogger to get in on the fun and win some loot.
I'm participating in the party fun by visiting new friends AND giving away a copy of Randy Petrick's book "Money Games" as well as a Baby Signs® Potty Training Complete Starter Kit. Not too long ago I posted information about those giveaways so just read I love to party! to find out exactly what to do.
For UBP first-time visitors, let me tell you a little about myself and this blog. This is a fun place where you will read about my sometimes crazy and often interesting life with my four children ages 17, 5, 4 and a little bit about my pending divorce. I write about health and weight loss issues (mine and others!), compose creative posts (like Monday's Muse) and generally try to provide entertaining, enlightening and educational information.
I've been blogging for almost three years even though I said I've been blogging for one year on a webcast I was interviewed on Sunday evening...
Did you see me?
Just two days ago I was interviewed on NewRoadsVideo about my writing and editing services, my blogs (I have another one called From Toddlers2Teens) and about writing in general. I was so nervous that I was fidgeting under the table.
The few people who saw it said I did well, and since it was my first time I am not going to be too hard on myself except to say I wish I had sat up straighter. LOL.
Don't despair if you missed it; you still have a chance. Watch it by clicking here: Petula on NewRoadsVideo.
It seems like I've already been swamped this week and it's only Tuesday. I guess it just feels that way since I started off the week without Internet thanks to some Internet Explorer drama.
My three younger children came home after a weekend with their dad so they were extra talkative and extra disobedient. My teenager had Calculus tutoring early yesterday evening so it's a little difficult to keep the children occupied and quiet during that time. And today was Male Involvement Day at the younger children's school and we flew kites. Yes, I was at Male Involvement Day because not only is it a day to encourage men in the children's lives to participate in their education, but I am the Parents Committee chairperson and I've been trying to be more active.
This evening is another tutoring session for the teen and I've been clicking away trying to catch up on everything. I've even had time for partying...
Join the party
The Ultimate Blog Party is still going on over at 5 Minutes for Mom. Have you gotten in on the action yet? If not then you're missing tons of great giveaways and the chance to meet a lot of new friends. Oh, if I haven't mentioned it before, you don't have to be a blogger to get in on the fun and win some loot.
I'm participating in the party fun by visiting new friends AND giving away a copy of Randy Petrick's book "Money Games" as well as a Baby Signs® Potty Training Complete Starter Kit. Not too long ago I posted information about those giveaways so just read I love to party! to find out exactly what to do.
For UBP first-time visitors, let me tell you a little about myself and this blog. This is a fun place where you will read about my sometimes crazy and often interesting life with my four children ages 17, 5, 4 and a little bit about my pending divorce. I write about health and weight loss issues (mine and others!), compose creative posts (like Monday's Muse) and generally try to provide entertaining, enlightening and educational information.
I've been blogging for almost three years even though I said I've been blogging for one year on a webcast I was interviewed on Sunday evening...
Did you see me?
Just two days ago I was interviewed on NewRoadsVideo about my writing and editing services, my blogs (I have another one called From Toddlers2Teens) and about writing in general. I was so nervous that I was fidgeting under the table.
The few people who saw it said I did well, and since it was my first time I am not going to be too hard on myself except to say I wish I had sat up straighter. LOL.
Don't despair if you missed it; you still have a chance. Watch it by clicking here: Petula on NewRoadsVideo.
Monday, March 23, 2009
Internet Explorer drama
Although I spend a lot of time on the computer and think I am fairly proficient at using it, the technical side often gets the best of me. Because of that, I seldom bother with new programs and software without asking my best friend who is a real-life computer nerd.
On Saturday night, after a few hours of work and with a very tired brain, I saw a link on my browser to download Internet Explorer 8. I checked to see what version I had and with the thought that I was being proactive, I clicked and downloaded it. After the process was complete it restarted, but I was ready to go to bed so I shut down and turned. And, I must add, I was feeling quite pleased with myself.
The next day,
I tried to get on the Internet, but it wouldn't load. I had an excellent wireless connection, but IE8 wasn't working. I immediately called my BF and we tried un-installing to go back to IE7 with no luck.
My BFF tried helping me by IMing IE7 to see if it would load correctly - to no avail. He suggested different solutions, but we still couldn't find the problem.
Then I IMed (yup, that was working fine) a computer guru who has helped me before. When he finally got in touch with me he couldn't figure out it out either. He tried IMing FireFox to me, (no, I didn't have it) but the transfer kept failing.
So we met today and he loaded FireFox and THANKFULLY I am back online... I'm way behind in work and whatnot. (Did you notice that I haven't done Monday's Muse today?) I haven't gotten the chance to tell you how the Webcast went or had the chance to blog hop and comment.
Well, at least I'm back and you know I'm trying to catch up on everything. I hope your weekend online activities went smoother than mine.
On Saturday night, after a few hours of work and with a very tired brain, I saw a link on my browser to download Internet Explorer 8. I checked to see what version I had and with the thought that I was being proactive, I clicked and downloaded it. After the process was complete it restarted, but I was ready to go to bed so I shut down and turned. And, I must add, I was feeling quite pleased with myself.
The next day,
I tried to get on the Internet, but it wouldn't load. I had an excellent wireless connection, but IE8 wasn't working. I immediately called my BF and we tried un-installing to go back to IE7 with no luck.My BFF tried helping me by IMing IE7 to see if it would load correctly - to no avail. He suggested different solutions, but we still couldn't find the problem.
Then I IMed (yup, that was working fine) a computer guru who has helped me before. When he finally got in touch with me he couldn't figure out it out either. He tried IMing FireFox to me, (no, I didn't have it) but the transfer kept failing.
So we met today and he loaded FireFox and THANKFULLY I am back online... I'm way behind in work and whatnot. (Did you notice that I haven't done Monday's Muse today?) I haven't gotten the chance to tell you how the Webcast went or had the chance to blog hop and comment.
Well, at least I'm back and you know I'm trying to catch up on everything. I hope your weekend online activities went smoother than mine.
Saturday, March 21, 2009
My daughter's senior prom
My 17-year-old daughter Amber is excited about her upcoming senior prom. She's been talking about it for almost five months and started looking at dresses in January. Luckily when she looked at prom dresses for her junior prom last year, we determined which styles look best on her so this time she shouldn't have to try on every single dress.
We decided to go out again tomorrow to look at prom gowns. Well, I guess I should say cocktail dresses since Amber doesn't want to wear a long gown for her prom - no matter how much I beg. She wants to wear a cute little number like she had on last year; however, I did talk her into looking at tea length dresses including those classy ones that train in the back. You know, a sort of asymmetrical look.
Finding the perfect dress for this prom will help to ensure a memorable evening. If she likes how she looks, she'll feel confident and have a lot of fun. Of course, one of the other key ingredient to being comfortable is trying to find a unique cocktail dress that no one else has at this formal event. A dress that would look good on Amber is one with a halter top or backless bodice, fitted waistline and slightly flared skirt.
A lot of the girls are looking for designer dresses - like Sherry Couture, Alyce Designs Black Label Collection and Tony Bowls - that are sometimes made in limited numbers to help ensure individuality. That really adds to the special feel of the evening.
Do you remember your senior prom?
We decided to go out again tomorrow to look at prom gowns. Well, I guess I should say cocktail dresses since Amber doesn't want to wear a long gown for her prom - no matter how much I beg. She wants to wear a cute little number like she had on last year; however, I did talk her into looking at tea length dresses including those classy ones that train in the back. You know, a sort of asymmetrical look.
Finding the perfect dress for this prom will help to ensure a memorable evening. If she likes how she looks, she'll feel confident and have a lot of fun. Of course, one of the other key ingredient to being comfortable is trying to find a unique cocktail dress that no one else has at this formal event. A dress that would look good on Amber is one with a halter top or backless bodice, fitted waistline and slightly flared skirt.
A lot of the girls are looking for designer dresses - like Sherry Couture, Alyce Designs Black Label Collection and Tony Bowls - that are sometimes made in limited numbers to help ensure individuality. That really adds to the special feel of the evening.
Do you remember your senior prom?
Friday, March 20, 2009
I love to party!
The Ultimate Blog Party 2009 at 5 Minutes for Mom is underway and you have to get in on the action just like I am. It doesn't matter if you're a blogger or not, you'll still have a chance to win. The party is jumping from March 20-27.
All you have to do is go to 5 Minutes for Mom (click the banner) to enter. BUT before you go, I have a few things to tell you first about the party going on here at It's a woman's world! (You'll have to go to 5 Minutes for Mom to enter to win those... and check out all the other great prizes up for giveaway. The prizes listed here are numbers 131 and 132 on the US Continental Only Prize List.)
Thanks to Baby Signs® and Randy Petrick (the author of "Money Games"), I'm participating in giving away two prizes during the party: A copy of Randy's book, "Money Games: 85 Fun Ways to Save Money and Attract Abundance," and A Complete Potty Training Starter Kit.
If you're a regular reader you'll remember that Randy gave away a book to everyone who entered my last contest.
AND you may also remember by potty training challenges with my youngest daughter. I am hoping that the potty training kit will encourage her to tinkle and boo boo on the potty. So far she really enjoys the All Aboard the Potty Train book and DVD, and she'll do the Baby Signs®. That's as far as we've gotten so wish me luck and stayed tuned for potty training updates.
Now, for one of the best parts, I want to win a prize too! My top three picks are:
- Bracelet from Sydney Andrews
- $50 gift certificate to Target Stores from Shoot-Me-Now
- Omron HJ-112 Digital Premium Pedometer Fat Loss Chronicles
There are at least 100 things I would like to win, but my other choices would be 50, 51, 55, 56, 58, 66 and 71. Wish me luck, okay? Oh, and don't forget to enter to win yourself, but don't enter to win what I want to win, okay? LOL!
Enjoy the Ultimate Blog Party between now and March 27th... It's a great way to find other blogs, great sites and make new friends.
Have a great weekend.
Thursday, March 19, 2009
See me LIVE on NewRoadsVideo.com
This Sunday, March 22nd at 7 p.m., you can watch me LIVE on NewRoadsVideo (a digital online TV station) talking about my writing including my experience in magazine article writing, editing and blogging. I'll also give a little advice to those interested in starting a blog. You'll be able to view and join in (yes, it's interactive) by going to NewRoadsVideo.com.
Don't forget to check me out Sunday, March 22nd at 7 p.m. on NewsRoadsVideo.com.
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Company image
When I was a little girl my paternal grandmother began teaching me how to cook. She would tie one of the little pink bib aprons (I still have that apron to this day) around me and we would cook together. The memories of watching and helping her are ones that will never fade.
I wonder if individuals who work in the food services industry, or anywhere else that requires aprons, ever think about the first time they donned one. At iD by Landau companies can really express their corporate identity by ordering chef aprons and pocket aprons for their employees. iDbyLandau.com offers vinyl, long, nylon and tuxedo style aprons - among others. With all the different colors and styles available, along with the functionality and trendsetting styles, it's easy for a company to present the right image to their clients and customers. It's also easy to induce fond memories - and perform well at a job - when you're wearing high-quality work wear.
If your company, or a company that you’re aware of, needs to update their aprons or purchase new ones then have them go to iDbyLandau.com to view what’s available. iDbyLandau is a company that provides worldwide and quality services for their customers.
I wonder if individuals who work in the food services industry, or anywhere else that requires aprons, ever think about the first time they donned one. At iD by Landau companies can really express their corporate identity by ordering chef aprons and pocket aprons for their employees. iDbyLandau.com offers vinyl, long, nylon and tuxedo style aprons - among others. With all the different colors and styles available, along with the functionality and trendsetting styles, it's easy for a company to present the right image to their clients and customers. It's also easy to induce fond memories - and perform well at a job - when you're wearing high-quality work wear.
If your company, or a company that you’re aware of, needs to update their aprons or purchase new ones then have them go to iDbyLandau.com to view what’s available. iDbyLandau is a company that provides worldwide and quality services for their customers.
Oh so random...
Having fibromyalgia really sucks... sometimes some days are worse than others.
If I have to tell my children "no," "stop" or "be quiet" one more time I'm sure the men in white suits will come pick me up after my neighbors hear the screams.
Is there a minimum number of toys children can have? If I throw all of them away except one do you think that's considered neglect? LOL.
The knot on the head of a child does not ensure they "won't do it again."
All of my teenager's chores are miraculously complete when she wants to go out.
I wish bedtime was 6 o'clock instead of 8... Would it be wrong to cover all of my windows with blackout curtains and tell them it's bedtime right after school?
Am I the only mom who hates bedtime routines?
I guess a cup of coffee is not a meal.
I actually saw a help wanted ad for escorts, but unfortunately they only wanted women up to the age of 34. ROF!
Yes, my brain is normally all over the place like this.
Wordless Wednesday: Beauty in the sun
I hope you like my Wordless Wednesday and will check out more of them. For other WW participants go on over to 5 Minutes for Mom.
Enjoy the breeze
You can ask anyone who knows me where I like to vacation and they will tell you the Caribbean. It's not a secret.
It is also not a secret that I prefer an all inclusive vacation package because if you are going to be on vacation then you should not have to think about anything. And that includes what and where you are going to eat and what amenities are included in your stay.
Vacationing at caribbean resorts is something I definitely would not mind doing at least a few times a year especially at one of the Breezes resorts. Breezes have several properties and have recently launched a new site to let you know about their destinations, resorts, spa, wedding packages and much more.
I know many people are thinking they may not be able to take a vacation this year, but I wouldn't shelve the idea until you check out the all inclusive caribbean vacations. In the past, I've had the pleasure of staying at all-inclusive resorts in Jamaica and Turks & Caicos, and I admit that it is a lifestyle and experience I truly miss.
Now is the time to make your travel plans. Come on, don't you want to enjoy the breeze?
It is also not a secret that I prefer an all inclusive vacation package because if you are going to be on vacation then you should not have to think about anything. And that includes what and where you are going to eat and what amenities are included in your stay.
Vacationing at caribbean resorts is something I definitely would not mind doing at least a few times a year especially at one of the Breezes resorts. Breezes have several properties and have recently launched a new site to let you know about their destinations, resorts, spa, wedding packages and much more.
I know many people are thinking they may not be able to take a vacation this year, but I wouldn't shelve the idea until you check out the all inclusive caribbean vacations. In the past, I've had the pleasure of staying at all-inclusive resorts in Jamaica and Turks & Caicos, and I admit that it is a lifestyle and experience I truly miss.
Now is the time to make your travel plans. Come on, don't you want to enjoy the breeze?
First time for everything
My health and weight loss journal
The last time I wrote My health and weight loss journal was on March 3 when I told you about how my fibro pain management was going. Only three of you commented so I guess everyone has been as busy as I have. I have to admit that I have been so far behind on so many things that I haven't had a chance to visit some of you who are my favorites. When that happens you know I'm backed up.
Don't be too mad at me, okay?
There is one thing that I have kept a secret for the past two weeks or so. I developed a cold sore on my lip. Now, for some of you, it may not be a big deal. For me, it was like the end of the world. (Yes, I know I can be dramatic.) You see: I've never in my entire life had a cold sore.
It looked like I had some type of contagious cootie or a flesh-eating... okay, okay - no more drama. Because I felt so strongly about getting rid of the sore as soon as possible I bought three lip treatments. Herpecin L, Neosporin LT and Carmex. Luckily, two of them were on sale.
Here is a brief breakdown of what I think of each of them:
Herpecin L: I like this one because it has SPF 30 in it so it's great protection for when I'm out and about. The medicine in the "Lip Protectant & Sunscreen/Cold Sore Lip Balm Stick" was not overpowering and could be applied smoothly. Score: Overall an 8 on a scale of 10.
Neosporin LT: This was the strongest "Lip Protectant/Cold Sure Treatment" ever. The first time I put it on I applied it to both lips and it felt like it seeped into my mouth. And the taste was horrible. Anything I drank or ate had that taste, and I immediately rubbed it off. From then on I only applied it directly to the cold sore and was careful not to get it on the inside of my lips. This one was great at relieving the pain in my lip. Score: 6.8.
Original Carmex: I've heard about this product for years, but had never tried it. I am so glad that I finally did. This "Moisturizing Lip Balm" has a tingly (from the Menthol) feel that immediately soothed my lips, and most importantly, the cold sore. I keep this one in my purse because I like it so much. Score: 10.
Have you ever had a cold sore and, if so, what's your favorite product to treat it?
The last time I wrote My health and weight loss journal was on March 3 when I told you about how my fibro pain management was going. Only three of you commented so I guess everyone has been as busy as I have. I have to admit that I have been so far behind on so many things that I haven't had a chance to visit some of you who are my favorites. When that happens you know I'm backed up.
Don't be too mad at me, okay?
There is one thing that I have kept a secret for the past two weeks or so. I developed a cold sore on my lip. Now, for some of you, it may not be a big deal. For me, it was like the end of the world. (Yes, I know I can be dramatic.) You see: I've never in my entire life had a cold sore.
It looked like I had some type of contagious cootie or a flesh-eating... okay, okay - no more drama. Because I felt so strongly about getting rid of the sore as soon as possible I bought three lip treatments. Herpecin L, Neosporin LT and Carmex. Luckily, two of them were on sale.
Here is a brief breakdown of what I think of each of them:
Herpecin L: I like this one because it has SPF 30 in it so it's great protection for when I'm out and about. The medicine in the "Lip Protectant & Sunscreen/Cold Sore Lip Balm Stick" was not overpowering and could be applied smoothly. Score: Overall an 8 on a scale of 10.
Neosporin LT: This was the strongest "Lip Protectant/Cold Sure Treatment" ever. The first time I put it on I applied it to both lips and it felt like it seeped into my mouth. And the taste was horrible. Anything I drank or ate had that taste, and I immediately rubbed it off. From then on I only applied it directly to the cold sore and was careful not to get it on the inside of my lips. This one was great at relieving the pain in my lip. Score: 6.8.
Original Carmex: I've heard about this product for years, but had never tried it. I am so glad that I finally did. This "Moisturizing Lip Balm" has a tingly (from the Menthol) feel that immediately soothed my lips, and most importantly, the cold sore. I keep this one in my purse because I like it so much. Score: 10.
Have you ever had a cold sore and, if so, what's your favorite product to treat it?
Rare coins
The first person I've ever known that collected coins is my daughter's godfather (who happens to be one of my "bestest" friends). As I learned more about him, almost 20 years ago, I discovered that he's the type of person to wisely invest in avenues he believes will eventually make a profit.
Of course he's who I thought of when I learned of Monex where you can go to buy and sell specific rare coins with ease. The experts at Monaco Rare Coin company offer have the expertise, experience and resources that are necessary in this market. When you're dealing with these types of assets then those are the qualities needed.
The representatives are easy to contact and have your best interest in mind. If you have specific rare coins you want to sell or are in the market to begin collecting rare coins then contact them for a free consultation.
Of course he's who I thought of when I learned of Monex where you can go to buy and sell specific rare coins with ease. The experts at Monaco Rare Coin company offer have the expertise, experience and resources that are necessary in this market. When you're dealing with these types of assets then those are the qualities needed.
The representatives are easy to contact and have your best interest in mind. If you have specific rare coins you want to sell or are in the market to begin collecting rare coins then contact them for a free consultation.
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Nip it in the bra
Because I dislike the cold weather, I don't put too much attention into my wardrobe; however, with the increasingly warm weather comes a certain consciousness about what I'm wearing. I like to keep my toenails painted because I prefer open-toed, high-heeled sandals or flip flops. I make sure my legs are shaved because I'd rather wear a skirt or shorts than jeans and pants. And, I make sure I have the right bras so they aren't visible through the sheeriest of summer shirts.
That last point is about the extent of my thoughts regarding wearing brassieres during the summer. At least until recently. Imagine my surprise when over the past several months I've noticed a condition that I haven't previously had.
Now is the time I caution you if you're easily disturbed by TMI (You know: Too Much Information) then you should probably stop reading.
My condition... Remember this is a woman's world... okay, okay, I'll get on with it... My condition is protruding (<--insert "e" word there) thingys that are attached to the areola.
You should see me cracking up at the look of confusion on some of your faces as well as the look of "I can't believe she said that" on others. Hey, I have to make sure Google Adsense doesn't start turning up interesting ads so I'm being a little evasive.
All caught up now, right?
Every time I take off my shirt or my bra I notice the problem. I look down and think, 'When did they become so prominent?' Instead of the supportive, cute, unpadded, sometimes sexy bras that I love, I'm going to have to stick to the cute, padded, often push-up and all-the-time sexy bras that I love a little less.
I know you're thinking that it doesn't sound like that big of a problem, but since I've lost weight the eight bras I had have dwindled to two bras that fit with a couple I just hold onto just in case. Of those only one is padded. SIGH... hence my dilemma.
So it's obvious I'm going to have to catch a lingerie sale and quick, or I'll be walking around for much of the beginning of the season wearing extra clothes. Take it from me that this would not be a pretty picture since I often get "high flashes." Yup, it's true - I may be perimenopausal.
I am aware I could hop by Wal-Mart to pick up something inexpensive to tide me over or even another store that offers great deals. But, if you're like me, you've figured out that well-constructed undergarments, which are normally a little more costly, are worth the price.
In the meantime, I hope I don't get any weird looks 'cause I'm always going to think folks are looking at my boobage ... if ya know what I mean.
That last point is about the extent of my thoughts regarding wearing brassieres during the summer. At least until recently. Imagine my surprise when over the past several months I've noticed a condition that I haven't previously had.
Now is the time I caution you if you're easily disturbed by TMI (You know: Too Much Information) then you should probably stop reading.
My condition... Remember this is a woman's world... okay, okay, I'll get on with it... My condition is protruding (<--insert "e" word there) thingys that are attached to the areola.
You should see me cracking up at the look of confusion on some of your faces as well as the look of "I can't believe she said that" on others. Hey, I have to make sure Google Adsense doesn't start turning up interesting ads so I'm being a little evasive.
All caught up now, right?
Every time I take off my shirt or my bra I notice the problem. I look down and think, 'When did they become so prominent?' Instead of the supportive, cute, unpadded, sometimes sexy bras that I love, I'm going to have to stick to the cute, padded, often push-up and all-the-time sexy bras that I love a little less.I know you're thinking that it doesn't sound like that big of a problem, but since I've lost weight the eight bras I had have dwindled to two bras that fit with a couple I just hold onto just in case. Of those only one is padded. SIGH... hence my dilemma.
So it's obvious I'm going to have to catch a lingerie sale and quick, or I'll be walking around for much of the beginning of the season wearing extra clothes. Take it from me that this would not be a pretty picture since I often get "high flashes." Yup, it's true - I may be perimenopausal.
I am aware I could hop by Wal-Mart to pick up something inexpensive to tide me over or even another store that offers great deals. But, if you're like me, you've figured out that well-constructed undergarments, which are normally a little more costly, are worth the price.
In the meantime, I hope I don't get any weird looks 'cause I'm always going to think folks are looking at my boobage ... if ya know what I mean.
Monday, March 16, 2009
Consolidate your debt
Do the words "debt consolidation" confuse or scare you? You can get over those concerns and learn what you need to by checking out a free debt consolidation resource. Stop procrastinating and take care of you debt today.
Monday's Muse: Strengths & weaknesses
Interestingly enough, I am inspired by my strengths and weaknesses this week. Okay, I'll tell the truth: I'm really just inspired by a weakness, but it seems so odd to say that I added strengths to sound a little - uh - normal.
Let me explain. Just about every time I read a magazine I peruse the masthead and the contributors' pages to see what the writers have that I don't... as far as experience goes. This is especially important if I see an article that personally affects me. For instance, in the February issue of More magazine there are two highlighted articles that caught my attention: "Reinvent Yourself After 40" and "Health Rules You Can Bend." In the body + soul's March issue it was the content pages blurbs of "The best natural beauty products don't have to cost more..." and "There's no need to travel far and wide when a great vacation can be had right at home."
I should have thought of those articles because all are something I do and/or know something about. And what I didn't know, I could have found out. Let me be clear. It isn't that I think I can do a better job than the person who wrote the article or the editor who came up with the idea, but the fact is I didn't come up with the idea. No matter how many cheap effective beauty products I've bought, I never once thought to query a magazine with the idea. And, I bend some of the health rules that were printed, but once again I missed out because I didn't take something from my real life and come up with an article idea.
This isn't a new weakness. This particular weakness has showed its ugly self at each of the publications where I worked as an editor. I'm superb at catching errors, suggesting artwork and managing a photo shoot. I can research my butt off and write the hell out of a story. (Excuse me, I had to toot my own horn for a minute.) But I am lacking in the original idea area when it comes to magazine articles.
So that got me to thinking. If I can identify all of my weaknesses in my field/career then I can maximize on my strengths. Good idea, huh? I thought so too. Now, if I could only focus long enough to get pass the fact that I'm not good at coming up with ideas that interest magazine editors then I can move on to my next weakness.
I think the next one is procrastination, but I'm hesitant to think about that. LOL... Get it? Hesitant? Oh well, moving on.
Maybe you can participate with me this week and tell me a strength and/or weakness that you have. For that matter stop by Maternal Spark and tell it there too. Enjoy your week.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Enter giveaway, create awareness
A couple of my favorite people in the world (and I am not exaggerating) are Little Miss Hannah and her mommy. I've written about them before and I am pleased to participate in Little Miss Hannah's first giveaway and awareness campaign. It would be great if everyone would participate to help raise awareness about Gaucher’s Disease and other rare disease blogs.
Here's a list of the fabulous prize donations:
- Children’s book (signed by the author)
- $10 Barnes and Noble card
- Blog Makerover by FlibbyPie Design
- Three Digital Scrapbooking Kits ($18 value) by designer Chris Wasielewski
- “Breathe” Necklace/Earring Set by Hammi Jammi Jewelry (picture coming soon)
- Any item from the Last Day of Forever Designs by TwilighterVA store (with the exception of 25-piece and 40-piece charm bracelets)
- Gratitude Candle Collection from Soy4Me
- Slendertone Muscle Conditioner ($179 value) from Accidentalmommies.com
- Choice of any 12″ x 16″ photograph print ($20 value) from Picture Perfect Too
- Bratz for Wii game from SaveYourMoneyMama
Click through to LittleMissHannah.com to get complete rules. When you enter, which you can do multiple times, you can list your three top prize choices. Now, get to clicking, entering and spreading the word. Good luck.
Love & field trips
I don't know about other parents, but I don't think I thought about the demands - for lack of a better word - of having children so far apart. Here I am preparing a child for college by filling out applications, applying for scholarships and attending open houses and whatnot, and (way on the other end) I have a group of children just getting into the education game.
I have to get my mind right again. I've been talking to myself about being more involved at the children's school like I was with my oldest daughter. Yes, I know that I am the president of the Parent's Committee and I helped out with setting up and breaking down for the Black History Program. I've also washed the sheets for my 4-year-old's class. But there's always more.
Today, I went with my son's class on a field trip to the library. I know it's not much, but I had to start small. I purposefully did not volunteer or even inquire about going on the field trip to the circus. Can you imagine that? About 20 kids on a bus for 30 minutes both ways then sitting through the noise of the circus while keeping an eye on the children? Then fighting through the crowd (even if it's only other schools) to get souvenirs and whatnot. I don't think so.
I enjoyed the under 10 minutes ride to the library that is two blocks away from their school. We were there for about an hour and the ride back (while I secretly munched my snack) was pleasant. Next week I'll do it again with my daughter.
My son was so happy that I went with his class - he asked me last week if I would and I was delighted. Although I didn't sit next to him the entire time, we stole looks and smiles across the room. Then during the activity we colored together and quietly made our crayons fight. His bashful smiles and light touches sent joy to my heart.
I asked his assistant teacher if he's always that quiet.
"No!" She said that with a roll of her eyes and we both laughed.
As I was leaving the school, I saw my son standing in line. Actually he was spinning in circles. I said, "Hey! Don't let all of that pent up energy out now."
I walked up to him to say 'see you later' and I whispered to him that he had to be good for the afternoon. I asked if he wanted to give me a kiss on the cheek and he did.
I've had an extremely rough week with the younger children - and parenting in general - and this moment in the day is a reminder of how parenting can be filled with happiness, pride and sharing. It couldn't have come at a better time.
I have to get my mind right again. I've been talking to myself about being more involved at the children's school like I was with my oldest daughter. Yes, I know that I am the president of the Parent's Committee and I helped out with setting up and breaking down for the Black History Program. I've also washed the sheets for my 4-year-old's class. But there's always more.
Today, I went with my son's class on a field trip to the library. I know it's not much, but I had to start small. I purposefully did not volunteer or even inquire about going on the field trip to the circus. Can you imagine that? About 20 kids on a bus for 30 minutes both ways then sitting through the noise of the circus while keeping an eye on the children? Then fighting through the crowd (even if it's only other schools) to get souvenirs and whatnot. I don't think so.I enjoyed the under 10 minutes ride to the library that is two blocks away from their school. We were there for about an hour and the ride back (while I secretly munched my snack) was pleasant. Next week I'll do it again with my daughter.
My son was so happy that I went with his class - he asked me last week if I would and I was delighted. Although I didn't sit next to him the entire time, we stole looks and smiles across the room. Then during the activity we colored together and quietly made our crayons fight. His bashful smiles and light touches sent joy to my heart.I asked his assistant teacher if he's always that quiet.
"No!" She said that with a roll of her eyes and we both laughed.
As I was leaving the school, I saw my son standing in line. Actually he was spinning in circles. I said, "Hey! Don't let all of that pent up energy out now."
I walked up to him to say 'see you later' and I whispered to him that he had to be good for the afternoon. I asked if he wanted to give me a kiss on the cheek and he did.
I've had an extremely rough week with the younger children - and parenting in general - and this moment in the day is a reminder of how parenting can be filled with happiness, pride and sharing. It couldn't have come at a better time.
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Talk to me
I think it was 1995 when I purchased my first cell phone. At the time I didn't know the "dangers" of signing a two-year contract or all the ends and outs of daytime and nighttime minutes. Back then cell phones didn't come with cameras and there was no such thing as a Bluetooth.
The phone I had was a big clunker, but it was better than the bag mobile phone my older brother carried around. Remember those? The only thing my cellular enabled me to do was send and receive calls as well as save about 50 phone numbers. I kept that phone until 2002 when the battery stopped holding a charge.
I took it into the Verizon Wireless store and the clerk looked at it and said, "I'm surprised this is still working." He was very amused.
I said, "I just want to get a new battery."
"They don't make new batteries for these anymore; you'll have to get a new phone."
To say I had a dumbfounded look on my face is probably an understatement. As an associate editor at a small business magazine, I wasn't making that much money and didn't plan on purchasing a new phone. In fact, I had to wait until my next payday to do that.
The phone I have now, a Samsung, serves me well. It would be nice to have a camera or a variety of ringtones, but those features aren't essential. And neither is a new phone, which I wouldn't mind having. You know something like a red BlackBerry Curve.
I may not have the latest phone, but I am happy with my provider: MetroPCS. I have unlimited local and long distance calling, voicemail, call waiting and the ability to use my phone just about anywhere in the US of A. All for less than $48 per month.
What more can a girl ask for?
The phone I had was a big clunker, but it was better than the bag mobile phone my older brother carried around. Remember those? The only thing my cellular enabled me to do was send and receive calls as well as save about 50 phone numbers. I kept that phone until 2002 when the battery stopped holding a charge.
I took it into the Verizon Wireless store and the clerk looked at it and said, "I'm surprised this is still working." He was very amused.
I said, "I just want to get a new battery."
"They don't make new batteries for these anymore; you'll have to get a new phone."
To say I had a dumbfounded look on my face is probably an understatement. As an associate editor at a small business magazine, I wasn't making that much money and didn't plan on purchasing a new phone. In fact, I had to wait until my next payday to do that.
The phone I have now, a Samsung, serves me well. It would be nice to have a camera or a variety of ringtones, but those features aren't essential. And neither is a new phone, which I wouldn't mind having. You know something like a red BlackBerry Curve.I may not have the latest phone, but I am happy with my provider: MetroPCS. I have unlimited local and long distance calling, voicemail, call waiting and the ability to use my phone just about anywhere in the US of A. All for less than $48 per month.
What more can a girl ask for?
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Somewhere over the top
Have you ever had that moment when your kids make you absolutely crazy? You turn around, walk away after your head spun on its axis and ask, "Who was that crazy person?"
I am reaching that moment more and more this week. (A voice in my head just said, "It's only Tuesday.") As a divorcing parent, there are quite a few times when my three younger children return from their weekend with their dad acting not quite like the children I saw three days prior.
When I pick the two middles ones up from school on some Monday afternoons I am usually holding my breath and wondering if they'll be happy to see me, or if they will be ready to give me a hard time. Normally they trick me into thinking they're going to be good.
Luckily, it's often a tag-team operation. One is extremely well behaved while the other one gives me a run for my money. This week one of them is making me wanna run for the hills - literally!
I was going to say that they have me "somewhere over the rainbow," but that's supposed to be a good place. These younger children, my second generation of children, have my blood pressure up over the top. Over the last two days, my 4-year-old daughter has peed on herself more than she does in an entire week (Remember I had this problem about two months ago?). Right now, my toddler is screaming from her crib for the second night in a row (Nope, she wasn't doing that last week.). And I just want to go to bed and forget all of my parenting and personal woes.
The only problem is that there won't be any difference in the morning.
Enough of my bellyaching. How has your week been so far?
Have a gander at the Five tips to avoiding temper tantrums.
I am reaching that moment more and more this week. (A voice in my head just said, "It's only Tuesday.") As a divorcing parent, there are quite a few times when my three younger children return from their weekend with their dad acting not quite like the children I saw three days prior.
When I pick the two middles ones up from school on some Monday afternoons I am usually holding my breath and wondering if they'll be happy to see me, or if they will be ready to give me a hard time. Normally they trick me into thinking they're going to be good.
Luckily, it's often a tag-team operation. One is extremely well behaved while the other one gives me a run for my money. This week one of them is making me wanna run for the hills - literally!
I was going to say that they have me "somewhere over the rainbow," but that's supposed to be a good place. These younger children, my second generation of children, have my blood pressure up over the top. Over the last two days, my 4-year-old daughter has peed on herself more than she does in an entire week (Remember I had this problem about two months ago?). Right now, my toddler is screaming from her crib for the second night in a row (Nope, she wasn't doing that last week.). And I just want to go to bed and forget all of my parenting and personal woes.
The only problem is that there won't be any difference in the morning.
Enough of my bellyaching. How has your week been so far?
Have a gander at the Five tips to avoiding temper tantrums.
Monday, March 9, 2009
Monday's Muse: What I see
I've been racking my brain for most of the day trying to think of a topic for Monday's Muse. As a writer, I am constantly thinking of things that fuel stories, ideas, poems, prose... any type of written material.
I didn't realize until today that there are other areas of my creativity that I have been trying to nurture. I've briefly mentioned how I would like to take better photographs. When I see some of the pictures that the talented photographers capture I long to get something half as inspiring, creative and beautiful. Although I am not that great of a photographer, it was something that Jo said in one of her posts that helped me: Try different angles.
Since I read that I've been experimenting. Like with the shot of the bee mounds that are in my yard.
This afternoon I stepped outside when my oldest daughter left to pick up her baby sister; the air in the house was so stuffy. The two middle children followed me out onto the stoop and they began drawing with sidewalk chalk... The urge to capture the moment came over me.
"You want me to take your picture?"
"Yes!" They agreed.
Here are three out of the six or so I captured:
Yesterday when my daughter and I came back from looking at prom dresses I asked her to let me take her picture. I must admit that I am particularly proud of these shots... she's a natural in front of the camera and I felt "inspired!" :D
On the last one, I didn't realize that she was running her fingers through her hair and I caught her hand at a weird angle. In the future, I will inspect the photo more closely to catch stuff like that. But, I still love this one.
Taking pictures is a great way to get my muse going and I realize that my muse may show up for me to draw a picture, create a photo album or scrapbook or snap an impromptu shot with my camera. What I learned is I shouldn't put my muse in a box, she may want to come out and play to do something different today.
I didn't realize until today that there are other areas of my creativity that I have been trying to nurture. I've briefly mentioned how I would like to take better photographs. When I see some of the pictures that the talented photographers capture I long to get something half as inspiring, creative and beautiful. Although I am not that great of a photographer, it was something that Jo said in one of her posts that helped me: Try different angles.
Since I read that I've been experimenting. Like with the shot of the bee mounds that are in my yard.
This afternoon I stepped outside when my oldest daughter left to pick up her baby sister; the air in the house was so stuffy. The two middle children followed me out onto the stoop and they began drawing with sidewalk chalk... The urge to capture the moment came over me.
"You want me to take your picture?"
"Yes!" They agreed.
Here are three out of the six or so I captured:
Yesterday when my daughter and I came back from looking at prom dresses I asked her to let me take her picture. I must admit that I am particularly proud of these shots... she's a natural in front of the camera and I felt "inspired!" :D
On the last one, I didn't realize that she was running her fingers through her hair and I caught her hand at a weird angle. In the future, I will inspect the photo more closely to catch stuff like that. But, I still love this one.Taking pictures is a great way to get my muse going and I realize that my muse may show up for me to draw a picture, create a photo album or scrapbook or snap an impromptu shot with my camera. What I learned is I shouldn't put my muse in a box, she may want to come out and play to do something different today.
Now that I realize that maybe she'll help me come up with a query for a magazine article... What's inspiring you today?
For more of Monday's Muse, check out Maternal Spark.
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